Metro3pilot
Senior Don Juan
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A hug for Wyld :rock:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Because he is the white knight that saves all of the portly princesses.Last Man Standing said:Why and how did this flaming homo Richard Semen ever get popular? The homo agenda at work!
Yeah...sending that PM was just a friendly overture after posting this to me:belividere said:Haha,
For anyone interested heres my PM to wyld.
Seriously. You cannot expect anyone to take you seriously when you start a thread about negativity, followed by being negative within said thread, and finished up with a 90 pt font salute to how big of a joke this site is.
to some guys this site is opening eyes and making them realize things that they haven't considered before. Just because your not happy with the current state of how things are does not mean that this site is ineffective.
Quit being so selfish and wasting bandwidth. If you want to be a member of a great site then start your own. Lead by example. If you cared about this site so much you would have left when you realized that your presence was creating such drama. You really just care about your own ability to participate on this site and how it makes you feel, you could give a **** about any of the guys on here that actually have problems.
I sent it via PM because it was going to open up yet another can of worms if I made a thread about it. I decided to not waste anyones time with it and keep things civil (you know stop so much negativity on the board and all right wyld).
For anyone who didn't catch it Wylds last sig complained about how this place isn't what it used to be.
and this:This site doesn't have too many negative types, rather it has too many know-it-alls.
I do not get truly angry very often and ONLY when it is justified. I am FURIOUS right now and you, buddy, are yanking on the WRONG fvcking tampon string. Leave me alone...There still is if you dont go around looking to find otherwise. Most of the time that I open a thread, begin to learn something, and intend on posting a reply, I come across you arguing that everybody else is wrong. That just means that the thread is shot and has no hope of ever staying on topic. Those threads aren't getting a response from me because I dont want, or need, you to argue with me. I have better things to do since I lead a life of self-responsibility.
Come to think of it the most negative things that I usually see, at least in threads that are not obnoxiously negative from the start, are your responses and your general attitude to people who disagree with you.
Maybe you should consider the general attitude that you have and compare it to what your complaining about. You argue till people are blue in the face with your stubborn opinions. You have a gigantic ego and always post self important replies, i.e. I should be given special mod powers to delete things I don't agree with. You also may want to consider that you yourself may not be a prize and you have no right to tell a man how to become one, as you will never ever be able to obtain the male experience.
I don't want to argue since I don't care what you think about me or my reply just wanted to let you know of your own inconsistencies. I'm also amazingly curious as to the root of your obsession with this forum which caters mostly to teenage boys. I don't even care for it that much and I have a penis. I also know that a lot of the situations that guys go through I cant give honest advice to since I either a) haven't been in them my own b) am only hearing half the story or c) cannot relate to young guys (or old guys) and their current dating situation. Maybe I'm self responsible to the point that I wont open up my mouth when I know that it will only lead to me sounding like an imbecile.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You do NOT know the full magnitude of what is actually going on. My anger is justified. I did not respond to your pm, nor will I. I deleted it. You were antagonizing me on another thread and are very foolishly continuing to do so even after I have warned you that I am extremely angry. Now, for the last time....leave...me...the fvck...alone.belividere said:You have no response to the actual argument then your just pissed because you heard it?
You've had ample chances to reply to those posts. Those in the positive thread were posted and not replied to before it got locked. You can still reply to what I said in the PM but instead have chosen not to.
I posted that link for your own benefit. What healthy adult gets so upset about a forum post that they spend several days arguing? Especially a forum dedicated to the opposite sex and their relationships.
Face it you just love to argue. I don't (and kind of hate myself for doing it right now). I'm a big boy though so you can go ahead and pull what ever strings you want to, it wont hurt. For those who dont know I dont wear tampons as I have a functional penis like the rest of you.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I'm gonna be "brutally honest" here; what is the worst that could be happening? You getting banned? Why do you care so much? If they banned me tomorrow for my replies I really wouldn't care that much. Actually it would give me an excuse to quit wasting time on the net. I dont need to be a martyr about it though.Wyldfire said:You do NOT know the full magnitude of what is actually going on. My anger is justified. I did not respond to your pm, nor will I. I deleted it. You were antagonizing me on another thread and are very foolishly continuing to do so even after I have warned you that I am extremely angry. Now, for the last time....leave...me...the fvck...alone.
TheVirtualMind said:Can we just stop with this crap? Wyld, if you have a problem with someone, PM the mods.
People, if you have a problem with Wyld, just go to your user cp and put her on your "ignore" list.
Come on people, this is a website, not rocket science.
Wyld, instead of PMing someone, you attack them in public, or post a PRIVATE MESSAGE in a thread. When I made a simple request, you went on that little tirade. Trust me, I know what's going on. Just because I don't mod the same forums this stuff goes on in doesn't mean I'm blind to it. Yes, you aren't the only one to blame, but you ARE the only the one to turn it into such a big deal.Wyldfire said:Dear Mods,
The Mods won't remove personal attacks on me that disrupt every thread I post on even though they are off topic. The Mods keep deleting posts I make that don't break the rules. Oh, and after that the mods wait until I have finally had enough of their behavior and make a frustrated post and then lock the thread so everyone blames me. Oh, the Mods are joining in with the personal attacks and disruptions. Oh, the mods are going onto already locked threads and posting long ass diatribes personally attacking me. Mods...will you please do something about the Mods.
Wyld
Yeah...I'll get right on that.
Perhaps that might help explain exactly WHY I can't just "PM the Mods".
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.