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"Come February, I think I'm going to start taking some offers seriously"

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I heard this from an HB8 in her early 30s this weekend shortly after a firefighter dropped by her place to drop off some flowers for her birthday. Turns out that this firefighter is one of her three plates. She tells me she's been seeing him for several months now, but that she's warned him and her other plates that she's "emotionally unavailable" (the girl has a raging case of oneitus for a guy who calls her up only when he wants access to her hole)

I then asked her how much longer she planned to drag out the status quo, if she had any plans to go exclusive with any of these guys, or any other guy for that matter, and that's when she dropped the title of this thread in a very unconcerned tone - "Come February, I think I'm going to start taking some offers seriously."

A few takeaways:

-She may be one of your plates, but consider the fact that you might be one of her plates. Women spin plates too.

-The higher up a girl is as far as attractiveness goes, and the less obvious she makes it that she wants you, the more disposable you are in her eyes. If this is you, move the fvck on unless you want to be one of her countless beta orbiters (and Jesus Christ does that girl have orbiters)

-Does this girl not see the wall right in front of her face? How much time does she think she has left? Even at her age, has being able to go out and collect plates at will deluded her into thinking she's ten years younger than she actually is?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Great post.

The reason "the wall" isn't hitting women as early as it used to these days is simply because modern men are desperate, co-dependent, thirsty b!tches who will wife up anything with a pulse.

Men today are so desperate that their standards are almost non-existent. Just have a hole is the new "non-negotiable" these days. I even see good looking men getting p*ssy-whipped by fat pigs and proposing to them.

What do you think this does for the female ego? Of course they will believe they have endless options and endless time. Thank your thirsty beta brothers. :up:

The low quality of today's women goes hand in hand with the low standards of today's men. Today's men have convinced themselves that women are the be all end all of existence on planet earth. They have lost all dignity, self-respect and emotional strength. They just want to crawl under a woman and hide from the world like a primitive rodent.

Its whatever. Just do your thing and f*ck the women you want. Don't commit to trash just because "you're at that age". Another reason why I preach that men need to get comfortable being single and just spinning plates. As long as we men keep buying low quality products.. there is no incentive for the producers to raise the quality. Simple supply and demand.

Why do I sh!t on modern LTRs constantly? This is the reason.

As long as men keep being co-dependent faggots.. nothing will change.
 

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Hate on the girl all you want OP, but she's in Miami. Anyone who's attractive will have a lot of options well into their 40s. Why worry about her hitting some wall?

Shes spinning plates, doing her thing, and having fun. Aside from her being hung up on one particular dude, everything she's doing is how people should be approaching modern dating. Have fun, have options, and don't settle for what you dont really want.

Any large metropolitan area is going to have a lot of people in their 30s and 40s who are single. Where I live in the burbs, there's not many attractive, educated, and down-to-earth women to go around in their 20s. A lot of women where I live got knocked up young, or dont take care of their body, or have little education or career prospects, or are just lame and boring all around.

But when I go to NYC, things change drastically. Theres a large percentage of good women to date...at least when compared to my area.
 

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Most men are too stupid to realize it. Just access a typical girl's phone and you will see dozens of text messages from her orbiters.

Many men think they run the world but the truth couldn't be further from that. Ever hear the saying "Behind every good man is a good woman"? What they meant to say is "Behind every good man is a good woman manipulating him".

Men manipulate the environment while women manipulate men. It's as simple as that. Men might run certain institutions in the world or hold certain positions in the workforce but they are still subjects to their wives and female influence in society.

Women have learned to influence the only institutions (namely marriage and education) that matter into their favor. The rest may be left to men to feed their imaginary ego that they "run the world".
 

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Jaylan said:
Hate on the girl all you want OP, but she's in Miami. Anyone who's attractive will have a lot of options well into their 40s. Why worry about her hitting some wall?

Shes spinning plates, doing her thing, and having fun. Aside from her being hung up on one particular dude, everything she's doing is how people should be approaching modern dating. Have fun, have options, and don't settle for what you dont really want.

Any large metropolitan area is going to have a lot of people in their 30s and 40s who are single. Where I live in the burbs, there's not many attractive, educated, and down-to-earth women to go around in their 20s. A lot of women where I live got knocked up young, or dont take care of their body, or have little education or career prospects, or are just lame and boring all around.

But when I go to NYC, things change drastically. Theres a large percentage of good women to date...at least when compared to my area.
I can't speak for NYC or other cities, but "the wall" is still very much the 700 lb. silverback gorilla in the room down here, especially in a predominately Latin culture that very subtly (and sometimes not so subtly) pressures the hell out of women to lock a guy down and at least have one in the oven by her age. "Worry"? No. "Hate?" Not a drop. Slightly amused? Yes.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I would've laughed in her face.

'I think I finally might start taking a few offers seriously...'

??

Lol, Who does she think she is?

Women egos kill me man, hahaha, a couple cute flicks on instagram and they think there pūssy's become gold plated.

Hahaha, that chicks amusing & So are the retarded beta men who fuel her delusion.
 

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Between_The_Lines said:
-Does this girl not see the wall right in front of her face? How much time does she think she has left? Even at her age, has being able to go out and collect plates at will deluded her into thinking she's ten years younger than she actually is?
I wouldn't blame her, she's not doing anything illegal. She's just taking what is being given to her by the guys and using it to her full advantage.

A better question is: How dumb is that firefighter? To give any woman in her early 30s anything is pointless, unless the woman is a hollywood superstar, and even then its almost not worth it.

I wouldn't that firefighter saving my house, he burn it to the ground.:crazy:
 

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hahaha lmao i still remember the first time it actually hit me that my chick had options other than me

was literally like someone flicked a switch in my brain

its amazing how many guys are blinded into thinking that "they couldnt possibly be played"

as poon king says i don't know whats caused it (possibly the over sexualization of modern culture)

but all men seem desperate to get laid at absolutely any cost

we all know what happens why demand outweighs supply .....the price goes up and up

one of my best friends has hes traded his entire worth in for a chick whom i personally wouldt see fit to shine my shoes

but as he tells me he gets sex 4 times a week so its worth it :rolleyes: :kick:

(bangs head against brick wall)
 

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Enter the judge.

Between_The_Lines said:
I heard this from an HB8 in her early 30s this weekend shortly after a firefighter dropped by her place to drop off some flowers for her birthday. Turns out that this firefighter is one of her three plates. She tells me she's been seeing him for several months now, but that she's warned him and her other plates that she's "emotionally unavailable" (the girl has a raging case of oneitus for a guy who calls her up only when he wants access to her hole)

Alpha mates, beta waits. She's trying to lock down the alpha, but he bangs her in 4 positions then tells her to go to hell. Then she calls her orbiters for attention and support. No sex happens there! Oh, all women spin plates. No matter how old they are. Thanks to beta orbiters and e-orbiters and iProviders, women think their pussie's made of gold!

I then asked her how much longer she planned to drag out the status quo, if she had any plans to go exclusive with any of these guys, or any other guy for that matter, and that's when she dropped the title of this thread in a very unconcerned tone - "Come February, I think I'm going to start taking some offers seriously."

And you believed her? I hope not. Her tone is unconcerned because she loves chasing that alpha and and getting her ego boosted by her beta orbiters.

A few takeaways:

-She may be one of your plates, but consider the fact that you might be one of her plates. Women spin plates too.

Women are much better at plate spinning than men are. Hence why women are indifferent by default. Hell a woman can get a boyfriend or sex or attention as quick as ordering a pizza. Most men takes a matter of days.

-The higher up a girl is as far as attractiveness goes, and the less obvious she makes it that she wants you, the more disposable you are in her eyes. If this is you, move the fvck on unless you want to be one of her countless beta orbiters (and Jesus Christ does that girl have orbiters)

This is spot on. But you just moving on because of disinterest is really her rejecting you first and you took the hint. I made a one strike rule for a reason. Most of the time we think we're nexting a girl, she nexted us first because we f**ked up somewhere along the way. That and we're not wasting time with disinterest, and refusing to be orbiters.

-Does this girl not see the wall right in front of her face? How much time does she think she has left? Even at her age, has being able to go out and collect plates at will deluded her into thinking she's ten years younger than she actually is?

As long as effiminate, desperate beta orbiters exist, the wall is further away. Not enough women, too many betas. Sperm is cheap, not eggs.
Read betwe- You know the rest.
 

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Sex from the alpha... validation from the betas.

This is normal, and trust me. This never changes with women no matter how old they get, the only thing that is different is the quality of man she can attract.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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The wall is not a cause for her concern. The receipt and fleeting gratification of the next free lunch, alpha-lay, dinner, drink, shallow compliment, facebook like, insta-follower is the primary concern for blue-pill princess.

Blue pill followers are blind to most things, especially those things that are sat right at the end of their noses.

She's emotionally unavailable because the fog of emotional male anxiety clouding her orbit is suffocating her. She doesn't have room for emotion in her concurrent spheres of reference. When she finds the Alpha who has never experience a single emotion other than untethered rage, she will melt.
 

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RangerMIke said:
Sex from the alpha... validation from the betas.

This is normal, and trust me. This never changes with women no matter how old they get, the only thing that is different is the quality of man she can attract.
Very true.

And also, OP makes my point that I think it's important to have some female friends. So you can better understand what they think and do. Preferably ones who have no interest in you other than friendship, so that they can be completely candid with you.

Next time you're LJBFed, put your ego aside and accept the friendship. Be a good friend and she'll give you insights into the female mind that will increase your p*ssy-getting abilities 100-fold.
 

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Zarky said:
Very true.

And also, OP makes my point that I think it's important to have some female friends. So you can better understand what they think and do. Preferably ones who have no interest in you other than friendship, so that they can be completely candid with you.

Next time you're LJBFed, put your ego aside and accept the friendship. Be a good friend and she'll give you insights into the female mind that will increase your p*ssy-getting abilities 100-fold.
Yes, and to snatch a front row seat and see for yourself the wonderful world of absolute boredom so many of these stimulus junkies dwell in.

It really puts things into perspective - "perspective" ...that is, as far as your life long endeavor of self actualization goes in relation to some of these girls - to see the day to day existence of some of these girls with your own two eyes, weary of being pumped and dumped by one alpha after another, complaining that they just want a guy to "like me for me", their lives consisting primarily of laying around in bed eating ice cream, doing online shopping, watching reality TV, flicking back and forth between Facebook, Instagram, and text messaging, waiting around to be assigned some function, some role. And this is the girl some men are anxiously scrambling to come up with the perfect text to respond to??
 

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Zarky said:
Very true.

And also, OP makes my point that I think it's important to have some female friends. So you can better understand what they think and do. Preferably ones who have no interest in you other than friendship, so that they can be completely candid with you.

Next time you're LJBFed, put your ego aside and accept the friendship. Be a good friend and she'll give you insights into the female mind that will increase your p*ssy-getting abilities 100-fold.
Ok, this needs an explanation since you say we should accept the friendzone and accept women's advice on getting women.

Everybody here knows that a LJBF is a rejection sexually, but an invite to be an emotional tampon/ beta orbiter.

A woman is either interested or not. An interested woman will want more than friendship, and she'll move a mountain to see you. She'd move two for a date with Ryan Gosling.

Zarky, There are some things that even I (and possibly others) want to ask you advice wise on online game, but you don't accept PM's. We just might be able to bring more advice here!
 

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Between_The_Lines said:
It really puts things into perspective - "perspective" ...that is, as far as your life long endeavor of self actualization goes in relation to some of these girls - to see the day to day existence of some of these girls with your own two eyes, weary of being pumped and dumped by one alpha after another, complaining that they just want a guy to "like me for me", their lives consisting primarily of laying around in bed eating ice cream, doing online shopping, watching reality TV, flicking back and forth between Facebook, Instagram, and text messaging, waiting around to be assigned some function, some role.
Well, it's better to realize that sh*t sooner rather than later. Show me a guy who takes the p*ssy off the pedestal at a very young age and I'll show you a guy who gets laid like a rockstar throughout his life.

Ok, this needs an explanation since you say we should accept the friendzone and accept women's advice on getting women.

Everybody here knows that a LJBF is a rejection sexually, but an invite to be an emotional tampon/ beta orbiter.
Well, accept an occasional LJBF offer. If you think it'll be worth your while to observe her. Or try to be friends with a couple of exes or something. And yes, the emotional tampon part is the price you will pay to see some candid female behavior.

And yes sorry I don't do PMs on this forum or any other. Private anonymous conversations with people I've never met on the internet make me nervous. Nothing personal.

And no, I'm not saying "take women's advice" at any point. If you become friends with a broad, it's to observe her behavior, not to ask her opinions. I think a woman's advice to men about getting women is worthless because they simply can't fathom what it's like to desire what men want. The idea of having sex with a revolving door of naked teenagers is 100% alien to them, when it's the fantasy of nearly every man. They simply can't fathom men's desires, thus they can't give you good advice even if they want to.

Also, women can't fathom what it's like to have a difficult time getting laid. They simply can't. It's like a guy trying to imagine someone having difficulty opening a door. It's a non-issue to them. So any advice on sex will also miss the mark. How would you teach someone to open a door? It's so easy that you wouldn't even know where to begin.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Zarky said:
Well, accept an occasional LJBF offer. If you think it'll be worth your while to observe her. Or try to be friends with a couple of exes or something. And yes, the emotional tampon part is the price you will pay to see some candid female behavior.

And yes sorry I don't do PMs on this forum or any other. Private anonymous conversations with people I've never met on the internet make me nervous. Nothing personal.

And no, I'm not saying "take women's advice" at any point. If you become friends with a broad, it's to observe her behavior, not to ask her opinions. I think a woman's advice to men about getting women is worthless because they simply can't fathom what it's like to desire what men want. The idea of having sex with a revolving door of naked teenagers is 100% alien to them, when it's the fantasy of nearly every man. They simply can't fathom men's desires, thus they can't give you good advice even if they want to.

Also, women can't fathom what it's like to have a difficult time getting laid. They simply can't. It's like a guy trying to imagine someone having difficulty opening a door. It's a non-issue to them. So any advice on sex will also miss the mark. How would you teach someone to open a door? It's so easy that you wouldn't even know where to begin.
Interesting post. There might be one or two benefits to observing a woman in her natural habitat just to reinforce the theories most men read about on here.
 
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