"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Combination Body Types

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I read where most of us fit into different body types like Ectomorph, Mesomorph and Endomorph and maybe only 1 to 2% of the population are complete Mesomorph who are considered perfect for bodybuilding.

Now I have always had a bigger upper body wide shoulders and appear muscular etc., without working out in comparsion to my lower portion so I would put myself in the Mesomorph/Ectomorph body type (muscular and lean without weight lifting).

Now since I have been working out doing Squats, Deadlifts my legs are coming on and being more proportional to my upper body and I feel pretty good about my progress so far since I started in Jan or since working out with heavier weights as my aim is bulking up and then getting muscular or is that two in the same?

Now my question is this to those who know who might have the same body type as me what pit falls should I avoid and since my progress seem's good should I keep doing what I have and of coarse eating like I have high protein foods like Chicken, lean steaks, ground turkey, whey protein, water and Creatine and 8 to 10 hours sleep etc.

If you need more info let me know but I am 6-3-6-4 210 to 214 I've been putting on weight by about 4 pounds give or take from weighing in the morning and evening.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Simple rule of bbing:

If you're making progress don't change a thing
 

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Excellent!

Now if I begin to bloat or my gut gets a bit to big but still having progress in my legs and upper body is it about less carbs intake and more cardio to bring it down along with crunches?

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Warboss Alex said:
Simple rule of bbing:

If you're making progress don't change a thing
 

Warboss Alex

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Crunches don't do anything for fat loss

You have to be able to tell the difference between food bloat and fat gain. Take a couple of days off, eat normally (3 meals) and see if the bloat goes away, after a couple of days take your waist measurement in the morning and check the mirror to see what's happened, if you've gained fat you'll notice

If you're getting fat assess your diet, particularly carbs and their timing plus your cardio scheme. if you're eating enough to grow you should be getting fat without cardio or carb control
 

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Thanks Alex will do.

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Warboss Alex said:
Crunches don't do anything for fat loss

You have to be able to tell the difference between food bloat and fat gain. Take a couple of days off, eat normally (3 meals) and see if the bloat goes away, after a couple of days take your waist measurement in the morning and check the mirror to see what's happened, if you've gained fat you'll notice

If you're getting fat assess your diet, particularly carbs and their timing plus your cardio scheme. if you're eating enough to grow you should be getting fat without cardio or carb control
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You have to be able to tell the difference between food bloat and fat gain. Take a couple of days off, eat normally (3 meals) and see if the bloat goes away, after a couple of days take your waist measurement in the morning and check the mirror to see what's happened, if you've gained fat you'll notice

If you're getting fat assess your diet, particularly carbs and their timing plus your cardio scheme. if you're eating enough to grow you should be getting fat without cardio or carb control
True, this is a very important point. Don't freak out because you're looking a bit bloated with your shirt off. I took a week off last week because I was working all week in London, and the temporary food bloat went away.

Gaining a little bit of fat seems to be normal, but with your morning cardio and carb cutoff, it shouldn't be very much to be honest. :)

-shaun
 

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OK thanks shaunuk.

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shaunuk said:
True, this is a very important point. Don't freak out because you're looking a bit bloated with your shirt off. I took a week off last week because I was working all week in London, and the temporary food bloat went away.

Gaining a little bit of fat seems to be normal, but with your morning cardio and carb cutoff, it shouldn't be very much to be honest. :)

-shaun
 
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