jtws
Senior Don Juan
Color theme - I prefer the old one. Brown and blue.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It's excellent you've got a VB now. The software is so much grander than the antiquated UBB, however you definitely need to make the best of it now you have it. Get some decent colours and a damn DJ logo (you've had "Ultimate bulletin Board" as your logo for the last few years 
). Make use of the template system and give it a unique look and feel.
I'm super pleased VB has been installed but don't just leave it at default. I know it's been said you won't... make sure you don't forget
). Make use of the template system and give it a unique look and feel.I'm super pleased VB has been installed but don't just leave it at default. I know it's been said you won't... make sure you don't forget