Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Coloring your hair?

El Don

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I have dark brown hair and I think it might look better if I colored it black. Is it a good idea to do it? I know its gonna be wierd when I walk into work or somethin becuase I know people will notice. I just didn't know if they would actually care or would they joke around about some guy coloring his hair. what do you guys think?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJ_in_making

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damnit

Quite being so concerned about other people's opinions! Do you do stuff b/c YOU want to do it or b/c society wants you to do it??
 

Joe The Homophobe

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Do what makes you look better. I personally use Sun In to make my black hair a little lighter. I don't know if I would dye my whole hair like women do but since Sun In is a spray it is no problem for me.
 
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