"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Colored Hair?

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What does it mean when girls color their hair, like a streak that is purple or green? Is it a druggie thing? Gay? Bi? Prostitute? Psycho? Or they just felt like it? Same question on the nose rings.

I'm wondering if there is some secret cultural cue I'm missing here, like the earing in the right ear on a guy.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Colored hair means...nothing. It's just a fad thing. And as for guys wearing an earring to advertize they are gay is a total myth. Right now the fad is for guys to wear those huge fake stones in BOTH ears, like Usher & other black music stars. (Personally I think they look stupid.)
 
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Originally posted by WaterTiger
Colored hair means...nothing. It's just a fad thing. And as for guys wearing an earring to advertize they are gay is a total myth. Right now the fad is for guys to wear those huge fake stones in BOTH ears, like Usher & other black music stars. (Personally I think they look stupid.)
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hey watch it there... i wear earrings in both ears (off hours). have for 15 years. i'm not black or a music star. :)

guys who wear an earring on their right ear are most likely gay. trust me, come down to the homo capital of the world that is west hollywood and see for yourself.
 
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it's just a fad thing bro. most of them never go bald so they like experimenting with hair color
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Alright, so we got the hair covered. What about the nose rings? Same deal?

My first thought is they are rebelling against society, so with a girl like this you don't want to talk too much about the yuppie shyt. Better to play up your alt.indi.whatever side. Feedback?
 
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Originally posted by iveyleeger
Alright, so we got the hair covered. What about the nose rings? Same deal?
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No, not the same. Nose rings means she would be up for a party, and in general is not very serious dating material. My personal opinion, she is not into LTR she just wants to have fun.. she is still a little girl who wants to play even if she is in her 40s.
Disadvantage? She would not take you seriously.....
 
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Actually if you want to generalize apperance and clothing into certain lifestyles. Here are a few differant things ive noticed around here. These are generalizations dont flame me...I'm sure there are many instances that DONT follow these observations.

1. Watch out for the chicks wearing drab colors and baggy pants(olive drab, dark green, brown) along with the dark drab colored bandanas and no makeup. These are usually BIG hard core man hating LESBO's.

2. White girls with the brown lipstick and even darker lip liner, in conjunction with large hoop earrings. Another give away is the long strand of "sideburn" hair pasted to the cheek. Another is many gold chains with charms on each one. These girls more than likely date black men only( not a problem if you happen to be black). LOL

All those piercings and stripes only mean they like to doll themselves up.

Dont flame me...just observations....LOL
 
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i got a better one:

watch out for any chick who wears mongram clothes with her name or initals , even if its just on her purse.
this is a high maintenance symbol .
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by penkitten
i got a better one:

watch out for any chick who wears mongram clothes with her name or initals , even if its just on her purse.
this is a high maintenance symbol .
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What if a girl has her initial monogrammed on her underwear?

:p
 
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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
What if a girl has her initial monogrammed on her underwear?

:p
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it means her sex drive is high maintenance... duh
 
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Originally posted by penkitten
it means her sex drive is high maintenance... duh
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Oh, well that's okay with me... I can keep up.

BTW, congrats on 2000+ posts.
 
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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Oh, well that's okay with me... I can keep up.

BTW, congrats on 2000+ posts.
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yes honey i know that
and it only took me 4 whole years
 
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Originally posted by penkitten
i got a better one:

watch out for any chick who wears mongram clothes with her name or initals , even if its just on her purse.
this is a high maintenance symbol .
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or it's Laverne and Shirley.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Great way to meet the girl. Walk up to her and ask her about her hair.. Instant conversation starter.

Cheers!

Eric (where the hell have I been?)
 
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