"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Colored Hair?

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What does it mean when girls color their hair, like a streak that is purple or green? Is it a druggie thing? Gay? Bi? Prostitute? Psycho? Or they just felt like it? Same question on the nose rings.

I'm wondering if there is some secret cultural cue I'm missing here, like the earing in the right ear on a guy.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Colored hair means...nothing. It's just a fad thing. And as for guys wearing an earring to advertize they are gay is a total myth. Right now the fad is for guys to wear those huge fake stones in BOTH ears, like Usher & other black music stars. (Personally I think they look stupid.)
 
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Originally posted by WaterTiger
Colored hair means...nothing. It's just a fad thing. And as for guys wearing an earring to advertize they are gay is a total myth. Right now the fad is for guys to wear those huge fake stones in BOTH ears, like Usher & other black music stars. (Personally I think they look stupid.)
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hey watch it there... i wear earrings in both ears (off hours). have for 15 years. i'm not black or a music star. :)

guys who wear an earring on their right ear are most likely gay. trust me, come down to the homo capital of the world that is west hollywood and see for yourself.
 
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it's just a fad thing bro. most of them never go bald so they like experimenting with hair color
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Alright, so we got the hair covered. What about the nose rings? Same deal?

My first thought is they are rebelling against society, so with a girl like this you don't want to talk too much about the yuppie shyt. Better to play up your alt.indi.whatever side. Feedback?
 
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Originally posted by iveyleeger
Alright, so we got the hair covered. What about the nose rings? Same deal?
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No, not the same. Nose rings means she would be up for a party, and in general is not very serious dating material. My personal opinion, she is not into LTR she just wants to have fun.. she is still a little girl who wants to play even if she is in her 40s.
Disadvantage? She would not take you seriously.....
 
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Actually if you want to generalize apperance and clothing into certain lifestyles. Here are a few differant things ive noticed around here. These are generalizations dont flame me...I'm sure there are many instances that DONT follow these observations.

1. Watch out for the chicks wearing drab colors and baggy pants(olive drab, dark green, brown) along with the dark drab colored bandanas and no makeup. These are usually BIG hard core man hating LESBO's.

2. White girls with the brown lipstick and even darker lip liner, in conjunction with large hoop earrings. Another give away is the long strand of "sideburn" hair pasted to the cheek. Another is many gold chains with charms on each one. These girls more than likely date black men only( not a problem if you happen to be black). LOL

All those piercings and stripes only mean they like to doll themselves up.

Dont flame me...just observations....LOL
 
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i got a better one:

watch out for any chick who wears mongram clothes with her name or initals , even if its just on her purse.
this is a high maintenance symbol .
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by penkitten
i got a better one:

watch out for any chick who wears mongram clothes with her name or initals , even if its just on her purse.
this is a high maintenance symbol .
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What if a girl has her initial monogrammed on her underwear?

:p
 
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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
What if a girl has her initial monogrammed on her underwear?

:p
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it means her sex drive is high maintenance... duh
 
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Originally posted by penkitten
it means her sex drive is high maintenance... duh
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Oh, well that's okay with me... I can keep up.

BTW, congrats on 2000+ posts.
 
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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Oh, well that's okay with me... I can keep up.

BTW, congrats on 2000+ posts.
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yes honey i know that
and it only took me 4 whole years
 
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Originally posted by penkitten
i got a better one:

watch out for any chick who wears mongram clothes with her name or initals , even if its just on her purse.
this is a high maintenance symbol .
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or it's Laverne and Shirley.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Great way to meet the girl. Walk up to her and ask her about her hair.. Instant conversation starter.

Cheers!

Eric (where the hell have I been?)
 
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