“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Colombia is extremely overrated in my opinion

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1). Observed the Philippines and Latin America and you will notice that the passport bros are only getting the undesirable women in those countries. In the Philippines, you only see men with the rural darker skinned peasant looking women and not with the women that look higher socioeconomic status. Whether you like it or not, you are dumpster diving in another man’s country for their women. It’s a net benefit, you take their women they don’t want and they get compensated for it.

2). It is transactional too. These men are either just paying for prostitutes or funding families.

3). I love Latinas and Asian women too, but I will never dumpster dive in a third world country to get one. I get it if you are over 60 and just checked out, but there’s no excuses for any man under the age of 50 doing this shvt.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Chances are you guys are searching for the wrong type of women in low quantity places, searching for a decent woman in a nightclub is like finding a needle in a haystack. She’s not there buddy, why don’t you rent yourself a puppy, go out with a wingman or wingwoman/ platonic friend and go day gaming at a festive place where its sunny and friendly.
 

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1). Observed the Philippines and Latin America and you will notice that the passport bros are only getting the undesirable women in those countries. In the Philippines, you only see men with the rural darker skinned peasant looking women and not with the women that look higher socioeconomic status. Whether you like it or not, you are dumpster diving in another man’s country for their women. It’s a net benefit, you take their women they don’t want and they get compensated for it.

2). It is transactional too. These men are either just paying for prostitutes or funding families.

3). I love Latinas and Asian women too, but I will never dumpster dive in a third world country to get one. I get it if you are over 60 and just checked out, but there’s no excuses for any man under the age of 50 doing this shvt.
That's what I observed in South America as well, undesirable men from the US and Europe dumpster diving and excited to be getting duped
 

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Colombia is a fun place to visit if you're into the outdoors, but as far as a destination for meeting normal women, I found it rather terrible. When I first visited six years ago, I was oblivious and naive, thinking it would be like the Philippines or somewhere similar. I went to Medellin and got a hotel in a tourist area that hadn't been too overrun by gringos. When women would approach me, I got excited and thought I'd found a real hidden gem, only to find out they were prostitutes in disguise. There are boatloads of them all over the country and I found it disgusting how they would deceive clueless foreigners like me. They start talking to you with this fake friendliness, as if they're interested in where you're from, and then after the conversation has progressed, they start quoting prices. In one instance, a girl didn't tell me it was pay for play until we got to the airbnb. I was disgusted and didn't venture to Medellin after that. The nightlife was not what I thought, with any sort of normal girls sitting at round tables with their cousins or friends or whatever, not mingling with anyone else at all. This was the case all over with the exception of Bogota which had a more international scene, but the city of Bogota itself is a dump with perpetually grey weather. I haven't been back there in years and instead have explored other countries like Brazil and Argentina, which were significantly better.

There is a spectrum when it comes to wh*res there, on one end you have hookers who don't hide it in brothers and strip clubs, and on the other end are "prepagas," who dress normally and are out looking for dumb foreigners to use. God forbid if you end up with one of them you will paying for dinners and sex, as well as her clothes and cousins dental work, while telling yourself that she's "not really a prostitute."

The perception of Colombian women being more attractive has to do with the extreme emphasis in the country on physical appearance, and the "beauty industry," that attracts women around the globe to get cheap high quality plastic surgery. I have known several middle aged women in Florida who've traveled to Colombia solely for that purpose. If you're like me, who prefers normal who aren't out to scam you, there are many other options to choose from that have more real women. Just my two cents.
You are surprised that a country known for being a top sex tourism destination is full of prostitutes? You can't be serious.

Unless you look like some kind of a nordic viking and are travelling to a location where white people are a rarity, your primary value to third world women lies in your wallet.
 

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It is very clear to me after traveling to a lot of “third world” countries in my early twenties that the naive white guy is going to feel more successful there due to the power imbalance. That is it plain and simple. Someone who is traveling there obviously has a certain amount of money, likely comes from the US or Europe, has a strong passport, and they are going after women who live in houses made out of sheet metal, who has hardly been out of her neighborhood and earns less than 500 a month. I don’t mean to sound too harsh but that has been what I’ve observed over and over again. Well to do women in those countries who’ve traveled, which is rare, are not salivating over gringos.

The passport bro circle jerk is extremely cringe and they will find out the hard way if they’re that naive.
I remember dating a Ukrainian chick that was earning like $100/mo. :eek:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

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It might be hyperbolic ofcourse, but when I think about the women from.my region...literally today I met a guy at work who told me his baby mom is from my country and geuss what? She sells dope. Just to give you an example.

I recently dated a woman whose neighbour was also from my country and geuss what? That woman's house is a dope storage for the local drug dealers.

Imo humbly , these women are peligro and NOT for the faint of heart. Just saying this as a man who grew up around them. I'd LOVE to say we have the best women, but unfortunately that's far from the truth.
Oh yeah. There's going to be a lot of hood rats. Your typical passport bro is not going to have the game nor connections to circulate among more educated women in any country. Not to mention knowing how to filter if he does talk to some of these girls. For example in Rio most gringos used to go to this huge nightclub in Copacabana, it was basically a wh0rehouse. They're not putting in the time to go to a nice bar in a middle class area and approaching someone who might reject him. The average man is lazy and a coward.
 

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Chances are you guys are searching for the wrong type of women in low quantity places, searching for a decent woman in a nightclub is like finding a needle in a haystack. She’s not there buddy, why don’t you rent yourself a puppy, go out with a wingman or wingwoman/ platonic friend and go day gaming at a festive place where its sunny and friendly.
100%. Most nightclubs are trash. The posher ones are just glorified garbage. And then you get guys bytching that they can't find a "quality woman."
 

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It might be hyperbolic ofcourse, but when I think about the women from.my region...literally today I met a guy at work who told me his baby mom is from my country and geuss what? She sells dope. Just to give you an example.

I recently dated a woman whose neighbour was also from my country and geuss what? That woman's house is a dope storage for the local drug dealers.

Imo humbly , these women are peligro and NOT for the faint of heart. Just saying this as a man who grew up around them. I'd LOVE to say we have the best women, but unfortunately that's far from the truth.
Yeah, lots of these gals are the dark complexioned versions of Jane Margolis

Relatively few people born in destitution(be that overseas, or in the ghettos and trailer parks of The Post-Industrial West)can rid themselves of the slum psychology they're indoctrinated in, from ages 0-18
 

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Yeah, lots of these gals are the dark complexioned versions of Jane Margolis

Relatively few people born in destitution(be that overseas, or in the ghettos and trailer parks of The Post-Industrial West)can rid themselves of the slum psychology they're indoctrinated in, from ages 0-18
Jane and Lydia were so fine in that show!
 

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You are surprised that a country known for being a top sex tourism destination is full of prostitutes? You can't be serious.

Unless you look like some kind of a nordic viking and are travelling to a location where white people are a rarity, your primary value to third world women lies in your wallet.
Colombia seemed way overrated and full of wh_res to me compared to other places I visit in South America. I had a much better time in Brazil and Argentina meeting normal women.
My first time in Medellin, I didn't understand things very well, nor would I be likely to at 23 never having visited. I did not seek out any hookers there, women would often start talking to me and I wouldn't understand they were wh_res until later. That was the point I was trying to make about being deceived over there. Whereas in Brazil and Argentina it would be possible to be approached by a woman without them being a wh_re automatically.
 
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