"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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cologne vs. natural body smell

david2006

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Do you put on some cologne or not? Having read about those pheromones and sweat smell that chicks dig, I'm thinking to stop using cologne... Maybe we should also shower using some no-scent shampoos and bath gels... Or you thinks there are some good colognes that have even better effect than natural body smell? If so, which ones?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJDamage

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Wear a cologne if you want to but just know this: wearing a good cologne is not a deal breaker whether or not a chick will want you. If she doesn't like you from the get go a cologne won't help.

Smell is only a deal breaker if you have a bad B.O or you simply put too much of a cologne on. A cologne can also work against you since there are some women who find certain cologne's smell repulsive. I myself got repulsed by a chick smell once because she wore the same perfume as my mother.
 

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I know that the same chick turns me on more with a nice smell than without a perfume but I guess chicks don't have those chemicals in sweat that we supposedly have... Though their ***** juice probably has some of chemicals as it always drives me crazy...
 

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david2006 said:
I know that the same chick turns me on more with a nice smell than without a perfume but I guess chicks don't have those chemicals in sweat that we supposedly have... Though their ***** juice probably has some of chemicals as it always drives me crazy...
There used to be a thread (which I can't find) about a member of sosuave who decided to take a tissue paper and rub it all over his shaft and balls after excercising and then take the sweat from it and rub it all over his face and neck. Apperently he claimed that it had some success with women as a result of them smelling his natural sexual pharamones. It was an interesting read.
 
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