"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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cologne vs. natural body smell

david2006

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Do you put on some cologne or not? Having read about those pheromones and sweat smell that chicks dig, I'm thinking to stop using cologne... Maybe we should also shower using some no-scent shampoos and bath gels... Or you thinks there are some good colognes that have even better effect than natural body smell? If so, which ones?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJDamage

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Wear a cologne if you want to but just know this: wearing a good cologne is not a deal breaker whether or not a chick will want you. If she doesn't like you from the get go a cologne won't help.

Smell is only a deal breaker if you have a bad B.O or you simply put too much of a cologne on. A cologne can also work against you since there are some women who find certain cologne's smell repulsive. I myself got repulsed by a chick smell once because she wore the same perfume as my mother.
 

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I know that the same chick turns me on more with a nice smell than without a perfume but I guess chicks don't have those chemicals in sweat that we supposedly have... Though their ***** juice probably has some of chemicals as it always drives me crazy...
 

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david2006 said:
I know that the same chick turns me on more with a nice smell than without a perfume but I guess chicks don't have those chemicals in sweat that we supposedly have... Though their ***** juice probably has some of chemicals as it always drives me crazy...
There used to be a thread (which I can't find) about a member of sosuave who decided to take a tissue paper and rub it all over his shaft and balls after excercising and then take the sweat from it and rub it all over his face and neck. Apperently he claimed that it had some success with women as a result of them smelling his natural sexual pharamones. It was an interesting read.
 
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