"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Colleges are flooded with hot women who don't give attitude

skinnyguy

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The only thing is, it can be hard to game if you're not a part of the university.

I prefer college age women because over 22 women have sooooo much baggage and attitude. Girls in college might be sleeping around but at least they aren't jaded.

I could pass for a college student easily. In fact I'm sitting in a college library right now. What do you think is the best way to approach college chicks if you aren't a frat king?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If you're over 25 pretend to be a mature student. If not, pretend to be a regular student.

Just approach them like you would any other day game target IMO.
 

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Or you can say you're an alumni, visiting the library or something.
 

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I think you're too much in your head. Most people will guess you're a student by the mere fact that you're young and standing on campus. Don't let these limiting beliefs get to you. College campuses are goldmines, especially with so many AFCs walking around. Go get those girls and don't forget to mention your buddy Masculinity in that Field Report!
 

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have you considered high school girls, OP? they have even less baggage than college girls so should be easy pickings for you. you could pretend to be a teacher or a parent.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Depends on the college. The girls at my college are awful.
 

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Aren't you that Indian guy who wanted to buy a bride or something?
 

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Dude, You Have Two Degrees From Cal

skinnyguy said:
What do you think is the best way to approach college chicks if you aren't a frat king?
IBreatheSpears said:
Just approach them like you would any other day game target IMO.
You do what IBreatheSpears said. If you want specificity concerning the issue, you talk about school. To narrow the topic even further, ask her how she did on midterms, if she for some reason, she still hasn't taken them, take about the upcoming exams. If you REALLY want to get specific, ask her about the homework she's doing and the book studying from as you're talking to her.

Now on to the main point of my thread. Skinny, you incorporate Indian police officer dude swag in your life.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vrpXXxRlD_Q

Dude, you have not one, but two degrees from the University of California at Berkeley. Which according to U.S. News and World Reports is the 20th best university in the nation and arguably the best university in the State of California. You need to wear this as a badge of honor and mention it in conversations with chicks, especially if you graduate from Cal with honors.

Believe it or not, you're a very confident and able dude, simply based off the fact you did graduate from Cal with two degrees. In my opinion, hoes need to be qualifying themselves to you and not vice versa.

What you need to do is apply the same tenacity, focus, intensity, and desire to getting good at chicks as you did to getting into Cal, getting your two degrees, and graduating with honors. Assuming that you graduated with honors.

But Rex, school can easy to me, that's why did so well. However, you still had to put in the work, (and not to derailed the thread into some racial sh*t,) Considering that Cal has a large number of South Asian students, you obviously did something to make yourself stand out among all the other Indian and Pakistani applicants to Berkeley and the same principle applies to chicks.

Also, when you think about, do REALLY want the chick who choose the dude from Phi Delta Theta, who miraculously survived alcohol poisoning after downing a fifth of Jagermister and half a case of PBRs over you? You might want to eff her a few times, but then what?

You can pull if you want to pull and chicks want to receptive to you. You just have to package it correctly. You went to a boot camp, go over your notes, and apply yourself. You have to take of knowledge and training and diligently apply that sh*t. Your goal should be to holla at three chicks a day, that's twenty-one a week, and eighty-four chicks a month. If you did that, there's no reason why shouldn't have a rotation build up by the New Year. Again, you have two degrees from Cal, if a chick doesn't respect for that, then that's somebody you shouldn't be f*cking with anyway. Leave her to her frat king.
 

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Well I only have one degree from cal ( my masters was done in SoCal) but I always had problems pulling in college because I was not the "cool guy" with "tons of friends on Facebook". 99% of college success in the field is based on social circle.

Appreciate your thoughts though, Rex. I would like to apply my talents to women in their 30's but they seem very busy and almost all of them are in a relationship. I enjoyed dating much more when I was 21 even though I wasn't high status in college. Now it feels like a chore.

I will try to talk to 80 women this month. Really trying to get over my isolationist tendencies.
 

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Now You're On the Right Track

skinnyguy said:
Really trying to get over my isolationist tendencies.
Now that identified the problem, it's a pretty good guess that those tendencies and the fact you're having fun when you holla at chicks are probably coming across when you try talk to them. I'm pretty sure that when you took your boot camp the instructor told you to have fun in the interaction and to be self assumed.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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