College towns

[dosquito]

I recently moved for the Summer to a college town, one of the biggest party schools in the country.

One of my only friends here is quite handsome and says that last Summer when he was here he scored dozens of chicks (the guy has done modeling before, btw).

I went out to the bars a few times with him. I wasn't focusing on getting chicks either time, just hanging out with my friend and his friends (if they were there), because he has a serious girlfriend now.

Im not a bad looking dude. But here's what I noticed at the bars.

When my friends' friends came out, and they were trying to get laid, never happened. One of them is persistent enough and would take to several girls at each bar and get shot down, but he wasn't very attractive.

It seems to me that from my observations the overwhelming majority of dudes at bars fail to get laid. Handsome, well put together guys go in and kill it though.

Anyway Im still enjoying myself out here. Im gonna go out and try to actually pick up chicks soon. If you guys have any advice or tips let's hear it

 

[TheCWord]

Ugh, girls who get picked up at bars and the men who pick them up...

To me, that whole scene's always just seemed a little too close to cavemen clubbing women over their heads then dragging them home. I know that biologically we're not all that different from Neanderthals but... it's 2013. I can take a crap on a toilet indoors while typing on my iPad. Come on.

I like to meet women anywhere but the bar/club scene... Coffee shops, subway or streetcar, events, friends' parties or get-togethers, etc.

 

[TheException]

I recently moved for the Summer to a college town, one of the biggest party schools in the country.

Congrats...its one of the best playgrounds for a man ever. As long as your not 35 and creepy.

When my friends' friends came out, and they were trying to get laid, never happened.

Because they have no game.

It seems to me that from my observations the overwhelming majority of dudes at bars fail to get laid.

Truth^

Its because they always go for overt communication and try soooo hard for the ONS. Thats fine though, because it makes gaming girls that much easier that these guys are chumps. College bars are one of the best scenes and all you gotta do is have a little alcohol to loosen up...make light fun conversations...dance a little...escalate....and seal the deal.

 

[BigSmooth]

I recently moved for the Summer to a college town, one of the biggest party schools in the country.

One of my only friends here is quite handsome and says that last Summer when he was here he scored dozens of chicks (the guy has done modeling before, btw).

I went out to the bars a few times with him. I wasn't focusing on getting chicks either time, just hanging out with my friend and his friends (if they were there), because he has a serious girlfriend now.

Im not a bad looking dude. But here's what I noticed at the bars.

When my friends' friends came out, and they were trying to get laid, never happened. One of them is persistent enough and would take to several girls at each bar and get shot down, but he wasn't very attractive.

It seems to me that from my observations the overwhelming majority of dudes at bars fail to get laid. Handsome, well put together guys go in and kill it though.

Anyway Im still enjoying myself out here. Im gonna go out and try to actually pick up chicks soon. If you guys have any advice or tips let's hear it

Depends on the town, the type of bar you go to, etc.

Different college towns have different vibes and types of people, and different bars within those towns have their own vibes and types of people with the locals who populate it with their own close-knit social group.


For example, if you walk into a heavily populated Greek bar, you'll be surrounded by sorority girls getting wet over all the frat guys in there. You'll have little to no chance of picking them up, even if you have "good game"...because you're not part of their crowd.

Same thing with going to a club that has a certain type of vibe. If you go rolling in their hot looking like you obviously don't fit in, you're going to have a difficult time picking up the girls that are giving you dirty looks surrounded by their posse of muscle-bound v-neck bros.

With college towns, it's a bit tricky if you're not from the area and you don't know which bars to hit up. You have to target the places where you will fit in the most.

Also, with girls in college towns especially, they are always surrounded by their girl friends. Isolating them while under the watchful eyes of 10 vagina-gate keepers is tough especially when in their eyes you're the mysterious stranger who could be a axe-killer creep.


My advice to you would be to find out which bars fits you, and go there a lot and make friends with the people who go their all the time. Eventually you'll have a familiar "social network" so to speak at those bars, which gives you a much better chance of picking a girl up there.

I live and go to school in a college town and I observe how all this $hit goes down so I'm speaking from first-hand experience.


~BSmooth