"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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College town bars, great if you are white, nightmare if ur not

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Just went out with my wing to a college bar. It's great if your a white guy, but if you are an ethnic minority who is not black, forget about it. Before you go on to say about it's probably you, and has nothing to do with my race, this is bullsh*t.

My wing also pursued all night, (he is not white), and he got rejected by all the HBs we approached that night.

I have no doubt in my mind, if he or I was white, that we would not receive this treatment.

All of the help in this forum, does not apply unless you are white or black. If you don't look white, then you will have problems.

I'm sorry this is the truth, I witnessed it with my own eyes. I also witnessed that white guys do fairly well without any effort.

Us minorities should focus on archieving wealth and not being don juans, because it ain't gonna happen.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I like you op, but this is whiney BS. Just because you are not white you are gonna cry about it? Sounds like an excuse for lack of success to me. You're a man aren't you? Step up and live day to day with the cards you were dealt like we all do.

With all respect.
 

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OP you are so negative it's making me crazy, ever since started posting on these boards it's either whiney ****e or complete negativeness.
It's not the women that's the problem but your negative outlook on life.
Man up or ef off.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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OP, with the negative attitude you have, you probably approach with a rain cloud over your head.
 

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Didn't JPlaya get banned for endless posts about race? How many more will gspshields get away with? 20? 200?
 

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gspshields2 said:
Just went out with my wing to a college bar. It's great if your a white guy, but if you are an ethnic minority who is not black, forget about it. Before you go on to say about it's probably you, and has nothing to do with my race, this is bullsh*t.

My wing also pursued all night, (he is not white), and he got rejected by all the HBs we approached that night.

I have no doubt in my mind, if he or I was white, that we would not receive this treatment.

All of the help in this forum, does not apply unless you are white or black. If you don't look white, then you will have problems.

I'm sorry this is the truth, I witnessed it with my own eyes. I also witnessed that white guys do fairly well without any effort.

Us minorities should focus on archieving wealth and not being don juans, because it ain't gonna happen.

Hey wait a minute! You have friends?
 

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You know what else was great if you were white and a nightmare if you weren't? Apartheid.

Mods please do something about this guy now
 

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Secondly, you should prob stick within your ethnic group if you're not white, its true.

One of the dumbest things I've read here in all the time I've been a member.







PIMP
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I wonder if GSP Sheilds is actually Asian and or a certain Israeli of African descent...or neither.
 

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How are you 25 with this mindset?

PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
you should prob stick within your ethnic group if you're not white, its true.

Anyway, you definitely are at a disadvantage if you're a minority, but there are still a lot of hot chicks out there that are open minded and willing to date different ethnicities. I'm hispanic and I can't catch a break where I live (westchester, just outside of nyc) but when i'm in the city, I clean up.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
LOL. First of all most of the AFC's here are white. Secondly, you should prob stick within your ethnic group if you're not white, its true. But you get a premium there...how many dopey asian guys have you seen with 10/10 asian chicks! Lots.
It's funny. The more I see you here, the dumber you get. Which is the exact opposite of this site's intent.

Have you tried sticking within your own intellectual group? There are a lot of hot retards out there.
 

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IBTL!

I've been to college towns during basketball season. I had no problem with girls there. And being that I'm Black, I find this post to be complete bullsh*t. If a woman's attracted to you, race don't matter! That's the verdict.

BTW, I'm a working man trying to come up. And I look nowhere near White.

Case closed. Get out of my court.
 

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nismo-4 said:
IBTL!

I've been to college towns during basketball season. I had no problem with girls there. And being that I'm Black, I find this post to be complete bullsh*t. If a woman's attracted to you, race don't matter! That's the verdict.

BTW, I'm a working man trying to come up. And I look nowhere near White.

Case closed. Get out of my court.

I NEVER SAID BLACKS DON'T WORK OUT WELL. I SAID IF U ARE AN ETHNIC MINORITY OTHER THAN BLACK UR SCREWED.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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pdx1138 said:
maybe you should move to SE Asia.

I've been to SE Asia, what did I see there?

Whites are more desired than the locals.

You see plenty of white guys with asian girl HB there.

So whites in North America = more desireable
whites in Asia = more desireable

Only on Mars would an Asian be desireable.
 

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It would be hypocrite to say that race doesnt matter in dating cause it does but at the same time it not believable that ALL girls discriminate against you.

Sure there are girls who only go white but not all damn girls, you sure you dont project a negative aura or you are simply out of shape?
Better yet, are you trying to score chicks in a bar which has confederate flags on the walls?
 

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gspshields2 said:
I NEVER SAID BLACKS DON'T WORK OUT WELL. I SAID IF U ARE AN ETHNIC MINORITY OTHER THAN BLACK UR SCREWED.

WHAT ABOUT LATINOS?


gspshields2 said:
Only on Mars would an Asian be desireable.
I've been there. And i strongly disagree.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
It would be hypocrite to say that race doesnt matter in dating cause it does but at the same time it not believable that ALL girls discriminate against you.

Sure there are girls who only go white but not all damn girls, you sure you dont project a negative aura or you are simply out of shape?
Better yet, are you trying to score chicks in a bar which has confederate flags on the walls?
My wing who is also not white has the same results as me from what I observed, we are both in shape.

So its not just my problem.

For the imposter:

THERE ARE NOT MANY LATINOS WHERE I AM, NONE AT ALL.

THE ONLY ETHNIC GROUPS OUT AT THE BAR I WENT TO:

-White
-Black
-Asian
-Brown

No Latinos in my area at all. I have no observations to make about LATINOS do to lack of experience with them.
 

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gspshields2 said:
My wing who is also not white has the same results as me from what I observed, we are both in shape.

So its not just my problem.

Maybe you're ugly and your personality SuX
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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