"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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College Tips: 101

Potbelly

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Hey everybody

I'm going to college next year so I would like you to offer some tips on the following:

- college social life
- college academics
- balancing your life
- staying in shape
- anything else you wanna talk about

yea so basically I searched but only found social life tips and little anecdotes. share your stories and anything THAT YOU WOULD LIKE TO CHANGE OR DO DIFFERENTLY if you had a SECOND CHANCE. I think I can learn from you guys. thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Make friends with alot of people, but, try not to take sides or been seen as "one of that group". This way you'll be able to check girls from lots of different groups.
This can also help to set you apart from people, and make people see your time as rare, and so won't think of you as a piece of the social furniture.


Practice your DJ stuff from the word go, so people can get used to it.

And put college work (and let people know you do this) before everything else. Before friends and girls ect. People actually thought I was cool because of this.
 

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If you just go to class and care a little bit, that puts you ahead of 80% of the other students. Anyone can party in college. Smarter people party it up and still have a high enough gpa to get into grad school. I knew lots of kids who were gone after one semester, because they never went to class and flunked out. Even if you have no idea about life after college, keep you gpa high and you will keep as many doors open for yourself as possible.

Normal cafeteria food will make you fat. I gained 20 pounds the first semester, and lost about 30 the next semester after I found the healthy food line in the cafeteria.
 

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Thanks guys those tips are invaluable. I'm giong to save this thread.

Yeah I been to afew summer camps at colleges and the food was fatty. However there were salad bars and sandwich bars so I will survive.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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how so metallica?
 
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