College Sarging

[ssj245]

Im in a commuter college, there are no dorms or Frats, so its a little diffrent board game. Im still adapting. Im a sophmore and Im wondering where is the best place to make approaches like in the library but then they are studying and not wanting to be disturbed. Then you have the cafeteria and they usually sit in groups and its hard to approach them since I cant think of anything to say to five girls that will intrest them and have them ask me to sit down or just even laugh and then have their defense down.

I guess anyplace is good enough depending on how good your game.

So the real question I am asking is how can I imporve on the part when you go

"Hi ladies....." Its the part after hi ladies that I have trouble with, Im not creative with things to say when it comes to impressing the ladies.

I dont like asking lame questions like

"excuse me, do you know what time...blah..blah"

then take it into a convo.

How can I improve on that skill? Skill of material.

Reading...comedy shows?

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

Well im not experienced with large groups (3+) but my opinion would be to ask a question that all can relate to and have to think the answer for a bit,and while doing this sit down at their table naturally and wait for their answer,you can pick it up from there.If they give you bad vibes or looks when you do this say something of the lines "it's not THAT hard to answer",if you still see that that's getting you nowhere say "i guess you don't know" and leave.

 

[ssj245]

cool

where did you learn that particular one, and where do guys come up with things like this?

 

[Hurrican]

I walk around the hallways looking for eye contact and girls sitting down to talk to. So far I have talked to a few girls and made them laugh but fuked up do to little things or I wussied out.

 

[chickenlegs03]

where did you learn that particular one, and where do guys come up with things like this?

yo, you learn from practice practice practice. from messing up and getting nervous, from choking and making a fool of yourself...all until it becomes second nature.

and, unfortunately, like me, if you don't keep the skills sharp, you will lose them.

please, join me in a little college sarging bootcamp thread. i'm starting monday.

it's definitely easier doing it with another person. hope to see you join in.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=100275

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

where did you learn that particular one, and where do guys come up with things like this?

Some i read and try-out with not much success,usually i set up the plan in my calm dj mood,then visualize the responses/my actions,then execute.If i get a different response from what i expected first thing i think is not to panic and definitely never talk without thinking first.