"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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College sarging when you don't go to college there?

Deicide

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Hey there. Today, I went to a local university to check out the place and acclimate myself to the environment. The reason, of course, is to prepare myself for future sarges on the place. I checked the place out and did a couple indirect approaches. Though I will be doing some direct street/walking game there, which is something I'm not used to doing. During both my approaches I was asked if I went to school there. Honesty is the best policy, so I said that I was just visiting. I'm young(will be 23 next week), so my age and looks aren't a big thing. What should I do to make the reason I'm there acceptable to the people I'm approaching? I don't think telling them "I'm here to do college mackin'" is the thing to do. lol Have any of you had experience doing college sarging?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Robert28

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that's easy, just tell them you're thinking of going to school there next semester(or whenever you plan to go) and ask them some questions about the school, classes, anything. then after talking for a min or two, ask if theyd be interested in showing you around sometime.
 

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Use Robert's idea and say "I like the campus, I just haven't seen the inside of the dorm rooms yet." :woo:
 

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PDubb75 said:
Use Robert's idea and say "I like the campus, I just haven't seen the inside of the dorm rooms yet." :woo:
LOL, great.
 

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Here in Vancouver it doesn't fly unless you are some hot stuff- its very clicky, especially if you font go there. In the least busy semester like summer, when not that many students are around, lots if time to spear and people are generally bored - it works very well. First week of semester is great hence everyone is hyped to meet new folks. Bring friends with you, two wingmen to get it going- that way it won't look like you are out there after the women.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Summertime and first few weeks of school are great, as papichulo said..

So make sure you pick your "seasons" properly.

Also sarging there with wingman is helpful, so if you have wingman that are truly down for this, work out a strategy. However, sarging alone is also not too bad, just look like you're on your way somewhere and got distracted, and just approach her. You can start at one end of the campus and simply start walking and approach every good looking girl you run into and chat her up.

Stop by the library and hit up every floor and make a few approaches there as well. Get your digits and be on the way. Continue to the other end of the campus, stop by the student union building (usually they have caffeteria there, college stores, shops, what not), and make a bunch of approaches in there too, and keep on moving..

So after you have made your round, you should have spent no more than an hour and maybe hour and a half there and walked away with at least 5 or 6 numbers (maybe not as many in summer if you don't run into too many girls that meet your standards). But the first week or two or school, you should go there and should be getting no less than 5 or 6 numbers, as there should be girls EVERYWHERE, and you can keep approaching as no one is really paying attention to you, everyone is busy with them selves and occupied thinking about what people are thinking of them or are busy interacting with others.

So if you start on one end, and just make your round, you should run into TONS of girls, might not even be a bad idea to get a school shirt.

Later, try to bang these girls. If somehow someway you end up developing a relationship with one of them because she is totally awesome,, just tell her that you dropped out to pursue your other goals :)
 

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err i kinda dont agree with his thread. im already gaming up on the girls at my school and the guy to girl ratio is excellent with the current rate of students(about 52% females and 47% males is the official ratio) however if guys that dont even go there come then that ratio gets messed up..
 

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I've found that it's much better to just go to the bars and clubs that the girls from that school go to on weekends.
 
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