college roomate

[danthemann]

so i moved into college and all and a wierd siutation has occured. My gilrfriend is staying in the dorm next door and im pretty sure im falling for my roomate. her roomate and I are always locking eye contact where we just hold eye contact for a long time and i make her laugh a lot too. I really dont want to fall into the friend zone with her... but i feel like dumping my girlfriend for her roomate can be wierd lol andyways i guess some advice for a situation like this would be nice like how I could get her roomate.

 

[Captain]

You need to realise that it's not one or the other. You can date two women at the same time, there's nothing wrong with it. I'd assume that you and your girlfriend are exclusive though, so you'd need to tell her that you are going to see other women. If you stand your ground and she is attracted to you enough, she'll accept it.

 

[mpimpin]

If you and your gf have been dating more then a month dating both isn't going to work. Depending on how your girlfriend is the three of you may form a really close relationship that could lead to many great places.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Go for the threesome. Don't talk about it. Just get the two of them drunk and making out. Afterward, continue to not talk about it and act like it was one big accident.

 

[eaglez1177]

You need to realise that it's not one or the other. You can date two women at the same time, there's nothing wrong with it. I'd assume that you and your girlfriend are exclusive though, so you'd need to tell her that you are going to see other women. If you stand your ground and she is attracted to you enough, she'll accept it.

I disagree, do not tell her your going to see other women, no gf will ever accept something like that or be cool with that, they'll just take it as a breakup.

Just fvck your roomate and keep it on the big time down-low, make sure ur gf doesnt find out lol.

 

[(JJ)]

That'll never work. the first big fight they have, you know the roommate will bring it up.

"it's YOUR turn to do the dishes!"
"I FVCKED YOUR BOYFRIEND!"

 

[eaglez1177]

Ohhhh wait a minute your referring to your gf's roomate! I just re-read your post and you made a small typo which made it seem like the girl that was interested in you was actually your roomate, not your gf's.

Well in that case its going to be very tough to get this to work, but honestly, if you dont feel like going out with your gf anymore (excluding the fact that her roomate likes you), then simply end the relationship now. End it now, wait a little bit, and slowly game up your ex's roomate. Who gives a fvck if its your roomate, your a guy and you have no restrictions, you can go for whoever you want!

 

[Scar Tissue]

Go for the threesome. Don't talk about it. Just get the two of them drunk and making out. Afterward, continue to not talk about it and act like it was one big accident.

^^^do this.

Get them drunk in the room and get them to kiss. Then kiss you. It goes from there.


Making it a bet and winning can help get it started but alochol is a must.

 

[BlakeW5]

Go for the threesome. Don't talk about it. Just get the two of them drunk and making out. Afterward, continue to not talk about it and act like it was one big accident.

^ Most definately. No guts no glory man.

Like Bible said, don't try to talk them into it, that just gives them a chance to think it over and object to it. Just go for it.

Honestly, what do you have to lose? You're already considering breaking up with your gf, so you can accept losing her. And as far as not getting the roommate that's a chance you're taking anyway.

The best part is either way you'll end up with a GREAT story, whether it works out or goes horribly wrong. Trust me, stories like that will help you out later on down the road

 

[Amberjhons]

Sorry to hear that you are in a difficult situation,you must make a choice from your heart,good luck to you.