"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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College relationship (coming up on sohpomore yr)-cut loose?

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Awesome GF or parties/slooots/MLTR

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I love my girlfriend, been dating her for 7 months now (seeing her for 9 months). I'm 19 years old and am a college sophomore and am in a fraternity with constant parties during the school year with attractive women that want me :/

She's really awesome and would stick with me through tick and thin and pleases me with anything I want to do sexually.

I tried to become a professional poker player at one point lol and she even stuck with me through me spending 30 hours being a fiend at the casino on weekends and still waited for me to get back home to cook me food and sleep with me.

She's 100% loyal and I trust her, I really wouldn't trust any other girl that I know at my school. She does so many things to make me comfortable


Despite all this I want to be single. I've only slept with 3 women in my life and feel i haven't really ever enjoyed the fruit of being single and youthful. I am very attractive and get eye ****ed by hb8s at my school every day, it's so frustrating.

Honestly if I was 30 years old and wanted a family I would marry her in a heart beat, she would be an awesome mother and wife.


On top of my sexual frustration with mongony, we don't have too many hobbies. We're both reasonable people and love spending time together but our interests aren't really the same. The past semester I spent 5/7 of my weeknights with her, so it's not like I get crazy bored. I just see a lot more fun things I could be doing on some of those tings.

Please give me helpful words of wisdom or things to think about. Am I missing out on my youth? Of partying with my bros, gaming women, being care free, etc? Or is a stable relationship in college worth it?

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If it eats you up inside, i'd say take some time and make a decision. It will probably be yes, you want to be single as most guys choose this. Break it off with your girl, she'll understand or will have to. She won't hate you for it since you didn't put her through a whole cheating scandal and she'll probably appreciate you being upfront about it and not waste any more of both of your times.

If you do decide that you want to do this, staying in the relationship is only wasting both of your times.
 
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I am honestly lost. I will not find another girlfriend like her for a long time but at the same time i'm only 19 and should be partying and enjoying my youth. I love her, but can't decide. It does eat my up inside but if I wait it'll simply get harder to breakup with her and i'll be more conflicted.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Seems like you've already decided what needs to be done. Now you just have to man up to do it.
 
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rh79 said:
Please give me helpful words of wisdom or things to think about. Am I missing out on my youth? Of partying with my bros, gaming women, being care free, etc? Or is a stable relationship in college worth it?
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Personal and similar experience here, take it for what it's worth. Went into my freshman and sophomore years of college in a relationship with one of the most beautiful kind-hearted girls I've ever met.

A lot of my "girl" friends knew I was in relationship, which made them throw themselves at me even more. Coupled with alcohol and beautiful girls throwing themselves at me, I eventually cheated.

So here I am, cheating on my g/f of two year's, who, like yours, was loyal. All for what??? Random night of sex with a girl??? Completely broke my g/f's heart, and destroyed her trust in men, all for a one night stand?

Bottom line, it was not worth it. I should have been a man and broke up with her first. No cheating bs. It's been 4 years, still feel like an asss for doing it.

My advice: Break up with her first. You said it yourself, you wan't to be single. Enjoy college. Just don't be shocked that after you break up with her, you realize that all these ONS with "hot" college girls really wasn't all it was cracked up be. You never really know what you got until it's gone.
 
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Ah so much conflicting information.... :nervous:
 
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