"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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College problem. please help

ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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hi, i am a freshman in college. so far i am doing pretty terrible at school. i am flunking a lot of my courses right now. I promised myself that from now on i will not be lazy. but the problem is that my semester is almost over, and i dont have much chances to pass it right now. my major is psychology or business. But my career goal seems to be fading away.

so i want to advice you guys that is it too late to catching starting from the upcoming summer school? if so, will i have to sacrifice a lot of time of my own such as suceeding on hb, and my part-time job? any advice from on you experience or smart men.

thanks, i really appreciated to give me some pointers.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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tristan22

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I'm not trying to be a jerk, but how in the he11 do you flunk out of college. The higher education system is so dumbed down, they are practically handing out degrees.

Seek out help from your professors; this works wonders!
 

AverageFC

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Stop the excessive partying. Stop drinking on week nights.

Go to your classes, do your hw, ask your professors for help, and if you need a tutor, find someone in your class who can help you, or ask the prof to direct your to an older student.
 

DrMetallica

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Originally posted by tristan22
I'm not trying to be a jerk, but how in the he11 do you flunk out of college. The higher education system is so dumbed down, they are practically handing out degrees.

Seek out help from your professors; this works wonders!
What the hell are you talking about? Have you been to college?

Anyways, read your textbooks and do all the assigned reading. Go to all the study sessions or review sessions or tutoring. Do the homework and find old exams and study them. Don't drink or get high when you have a test in the upcoming 2 weeks. Go to class.
 

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Originally posted by DrMetallica
Go to class.
this is the magic part.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by ROOKIE OF THE YEAR
so i want to advice you guys that is it too late to catching starting from the upcoming summer school? if so, will i have to sacrifice a lot of time of my own such as suceeding on hb, and my part-time job?
Are you asking if you'll have less free time over the "summer" if you go to class during the summer semester? The answer to that one is a no-brainer. However, it looks like it's going to be necessary. What you need to do is look at how you're living your life right now - obviously it's not working out too well for you. If you don't change what you're doing now, then all that will happen is you'll make another post just like this one come the end of the summer semester.

By the way, I'd advise you to drop the classes you're failing. A "W" doesn't go against your GPA - an "F" you'll have to make several "A's" to recover from.
 
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