"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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College pick-ups

playatobe

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Ight, i been noticing a lotta lonely looking babes at my college in the past few days, while i scope out my classes and such. theres a 'general lobby' type place by the main entrance, where im noticing a lot of these women. none seem to be any better than 6/10, maybe 7, but still, gotta start somewhere.

So. What are some ideas for a cold approach to these chicks? Just a simple, "hey, how's it going?" kinda thing, or, "hey, im charlie, whats up?"

suggestions appreciated. <definitely, without a doubt, going to be mackin on these babes, just curious of which techniques would have better success rates>

Peace
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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B4IFURU18?

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Normal ones, the ones you have listed above should work if you can carry a conversation. Try it out and see what happens.
 

Charm

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Simple Hello, introductions are fine and completely appropriate. If you don't do them, some stud like me is going to and its your loss for not getting to the finest females before I do :D

You don't need any fancy lines for college pick ups. I've done plenty. They usually go like:

Me: "Hey, I noticed you sitting here alone and wanted to come by and meet you. What's your name?"
(The reason you say "sitting here alone" is to enforce the cultural norm that sitting alone is somehow a lonely persons thing to do)
Her: Sarah
(in the back of my mind i'm watching to see if she asks me my name. This is an easy instant IOI test).
Me: Sarah (stating her name), what are you studying?
etc
etc..
 

Someone Much cooler

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charm is right I get about 8 #'s @ school a day. Its almost monotinous. 7/10, I would never ask their #, I would ask them to go get pizza or a drink or whatever bs. I like to also you what I call the "gradual press" if a chick is hotter than you think you can normally get (some preppy girls) gradually let them see the pros of you, I use charm and friendlyness. The jkey is a little at a time. maybe a simple smile and nod, next day "hey", next day, I see you alot figured i might as well introduce myself, i'm _____", make it brief then keep it moving, keep it goin....
 
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