Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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College Pick Up Advice?

jlazz

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A little background:

I'm a junior in college and during both my freshman and sophomore year I had a different girlfriend for the majority of the year. So during that time, I had no desire to try to pick up girls. As a result, I pretty much completely lost all my game. Freshman year...after I brokeup with my girlfriend I ended up hooking up with 2 other girls pretty often...but I didn't initiate it. In both situations, the girl approached me and I just threw a little game in to seal the deal.

For some reason now, my confidence has dropped significantly and I just can't get the balls to approach girls and get #'s. I feel like a lot of it has to do with not believing in myself and the lack of confidence lately. How can I regain my confidence? Past 2 years of college, I didn't care what people thought of me and it made me more laid back and easier to have a good time. Nowadays I worry about what people think of me and sometimes refrain from saying whats on my mind or doing things in general.

Also...I'd like to here some tips on how to pickup girls at college parties.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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amoka

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First off all, make sure you post in the right forum. This is not a tip, it is a trip.

Try reading the DJ Bible all over. It happened to me before. Reading the Bible was very helpful

good luck
 
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