"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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College Party Tips

bachelor

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I threw some pretty crazy parties when I was in my University and I want to let you in on some tips. You don’t need to be in a Fraternity to throw parties, anyone can do it.

Tip #1- What kind of party do I want?


You first have to ask yourself what type of party do you want. There is the standard keg party, theme parties, ****tail parties, and VIP parties. I will go over the standard keg party on this post and will show you guys how to put together the other one’s on future posts.

Tip #2- Plan the party

I know this doesn’t sound like a big deal, but TRUST me it is. I have thrown parties in the past and didn’t think about how many cups to have and had people asking me where to get the cups. Then 20 minutes later after getting the cups, “We need ICE.”

When planning your party, make sure to do these things. This is an example of a keg party I threw.

1. Amount of people expected (promotion of the party-will explain on next tip)
2. Kegs (Tap for Keg), Liquor bottles (Rum ,Vodka), Mixers, Hunch Punch-girls love this one
3. Bartender to help with the drinks ( Have friends help)
4. Bouncer to work the door (You don’t want crowds outside that attracts cops)
5. DJ and make sure he’s going to play the right music (If on a budget, burn some good songs or connect an ipod to the stereo and run the party playlist that way. An 80GB IPOD can keep you going all night!)
6. Clean up crew after the party- If your friends want to say they helped throw the party, the least they can do is help you clean. Also, have them chip in for the expenses too

Tip#3- Promotion of the party

This might not seem like a big deal. Your probably thinking that the people will just show up. I don’t think so buddy. Like planning the party, you have to think about the promotion too. With my parties, I promote ahead of time. I use websites like facebook, have my friends on campus tell their friends (hot girls), and I have my pivots (hot girls who are my friends) help me promote the event.

What are some promoting tips


1. If you want to throw a big party, put up flyers around the dorm rooms
2. Have your trusted friends tell people- meaning have them tell the hot girls to come to the party
3. Set up a facebook event
4. Word of mouth will go a long way
5. Start promoting a week or two in advance. Be careful about dropping the address of the party on fliers. You can add a link to the facebook event.

Tip #4- Enjoy the party

With proper planning and promoting, relax and enjoy your party. Remember to always be on the lookout for anything unusual going on. Sometime these things can happen. If you keep a good eye out, you can usually catch them before they happen (like people stealing things, fighting, etc)

After throwing some good parties, you will be the talk of the campus. Then more people will want to go to your parties, and this means you will meet more girls and become more socially connected on your campus.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lexington

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Good tips. I'd also like to add that you shouldn't over promote if you want the right ratio of guys to girls. Often when you over promote, a bunch of weird dudes show up and it turns into a sausage fest.

There used to be this one awesome frat me and my friends would go to on Thursday when I was a freshman. At first, not many people knew about it so it was great. It was about 60/40 girls:guys ratio and they'd always have good music going. The atmosphere was such that you could basically go and grind up on any girl that caught your fancy.

Unfortunately, the world started getting out and as time went on, it started turning into a total **** fest. It got to the point that they started having to make it an invite only party.
 
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