"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Prodoge

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Every friday is a big party on campus, and pretty much every friday I get to grind/make out with girls. Sometimes multiple a night.
But I haven't got any home yet or to them.

Not sure what I am doing wrong. After making out one said for example I gotta go to the toilet and I never saw her again.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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skinnyguy

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I had no idea Richard got banned cause I’ve had him on ignore. Thank you mods!!!!!!!
 

Fzatf

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Every friday is a big party on campus, and pretty much every friday I get to grind/make out with girls. Sometimes multiple a night.
But I haven't got any home yet or to them.

Not sure what I am doing wrong. After making out one said for example I gotta go to the toilet and I never saw her again.
If you can try to use something interesting at your place you'd like to show them. Worst case you can mention drinking at your place. If that doesn't work you can focus on getting a number and making dates happen after the fact.
 

KingofPuss

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Dude start dancing and making out with them then walk to somewhere more private. A bedroom or upstairs hallway or something, maybe the backyard. Keep making out and feel them up. If she's ok with that start to go for the over the panties pvssy rub. Whisper in her ear "Let's go back to my place".

Don't rush it though. Play it cool. Don't do this whole process over 5 minutes, build the tension. Maybe tease her kitty. As soon as you feel it real wet then drop that line.
 
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