College Parties and Hooking Up

[Chicks Just Dig Me]

A little info about myself: I am currently a freshman in college with decent looks and have a good head on my shoulders. I eat relatively healthy, workout, do average-above average in school, get involved in school events, etc.

My ex broke up with me for a huge loser and I am working on getting over her, spinning other plates. She is supposely moving towarda a guy 9 year older over me and I was wondering if she still maybe thinks about me, or once that does not work out, if she will come back. This girl wanted me very bad, and we dated for around 1 year and had many good memories. Do you think I come back in her mind even if she is supposely with this other guy? The parents despise this other guy, and she is going to college next year, so I doubt that'll stop her...

Thats besides the point. Even if she lingers in the back of my mind, I am going to a lot of parties, being social, working out, hangin and making some good friends. The thing I have had trouble with is hookin up with girls at these parties. Like hookin up with girls would get me over my ex fast, (its been 1.5 months). And I also wanna experience what its like to hook up and stuff liek that. Like I spend a lot of time with friends and meeting guys at these parties and future friends and I focus less on girls, which I guess is ok. But I wanna try to get with some girls and bring them back to my room and have a godo night. This will help me with experience and getting my mindset back to being single and enjoying it. The breakup was tough on me for a girl that I eventually settled for, and its tough seeing her move on faster than me when she would do anything to get with me before.

Any tips on how I can learn to hookup? I feel like getting denied at a party would make me look creepy or if I ask some of my female friends (some that I don't know well) to come back with me it would be awkward later on.

Help is appreciated fellas.

 

[WC2]

1. You meet a girl. You've asked her her name, where she's from, her major, etc. Maybe you got introduced to a few of her friends. You hang around her the whole night, hoping for her to make a move on you. You then say, "Hey, what are you doing later?" Obviously she's not doing you.

CREEPY.

2. You approach her and her friends and meet them all on your own. You hit on all of them a little bit, but joke with this one in particular. You don't 'hang' on her, as you have other friends and other girls to hit on. Maybe she says something to you as you're talking to someone else. You turn around and say "This is lame, let's get out of here."

Success.

The key really is to have a good time. Next time you're at a party observe all the dudes who have girls all over them. They're probably smiling a lot right? Having lots of fun with friends, right? They speak openly to girls and their friends, hitting on them whenever they feel like it.

10% of the men will always bring home 90% of the women. It's just how it goes. Learn to be of the 10% and you'll have success in college.

Either way really you're bound to have success. Pulling women in college is EASY if you know what you're doing.

 

[guywhoneedshelp]

Pulling women in community college is retarded. They are still in a comfort zone filled with high school friends and not as open to meeting new people.

Now if you are in a university...I think you'll figure out out. These girls have left home, left the influences of others, and are looking for new things.

 

[Chicks Just Dig Me]

Yeah, I go to a private school, not a community college. The parties are decent, it's not a huge party school, but there are parties ya just gotta look hard enough. But when I get there, I am usually hanging with my friends. I'll occasionally talk to new girls (besides my female friends) but it doesn't really go anywhere..

And since my ex is moving on to bigger losers, at least she is one-upping me right now since I currently only have options, but they have not really gone anywhere. Tryin to move on, and getting there.

I see some guys and how well they do, but they are just loud and don't care. Girls are always walking with a close girl friend or in a group, which makes it even tougher.

How do I manage to be one of those 10% who bring 90% of the girls home?