Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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college or not?

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How many of you are planning to go to college? And those of you who aren't.....what are your plans?


And, what do ya'll think about going to college? I mean, its a great place to learn a lot, build a good future, meet lots of people, but it also means a lot of work.

I had thought about not going to college and becoming a fireman, but I doubt I'd earn near as much money as if I do go to college and get a degree in psychology or accounting or business (what I'm planning to do).



So, post your thoughts on no college vs college.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've been pondering college lately..I don't know if I've taken enough classes to graduate and go to college..And I've been missing school a lot lately with my back surgery and I've been overall sick.
 

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secure your future.

its just one of those times where you got freedom to do stuff you like. u make the decisions and we happen to love that.

i am in college right now and i have class in an hour or so. always think that it would do you a lot more good to study in college. and besides, having a degree always gets you respect.

as for me, i don't wanna be left behind by my batchmates & friends.

like they say, anyone can try being a fireman but not everyone could go to college.
 

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I'm in my second semester of fresman year (Washington University in STL) and it's been the best experience of my life. Every weekend (Wednesday-Saturday nights, that is) has been better than the one before it. Drugs and alcohol are everywhere. Girls who want to fcuk you are everywhere. The work is tough, but in four years I'll have a degree from the 9th ranked college in the U.S. Maybe college isn't right for everybody, but I'm sure as hell glad that I'm going.
 

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2 years and it's Georgia tech or UF (backup) for me...yay for the first engineering pimp in history!:)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Need-2-B-Pimpin
2 years and it's Georgia tech or UF (backup) for me...yay for the first engineering pimp in history!:)
Heh, hate to burst your bubble but I'm a CS major ;) .
 

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did you think about opening a business?

i know many people who were drop outs from high school..and now there ballers...driving escelades with chrome...dressing nice..owning bikes and bltches :)

if you got the business mind...go for it
 

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Even if you don't want to - go to college/university.

And live away from home - that's important.

You'll gain 10 years of maturity in 4 weeks.
 

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You can always go to college and then become a fireman afterwards, on the plus side you might be an officer if you have further education. At least thats the system here in the sunny UK. Anyway college is good, especially if you move away as as well as broadening your horizons it allows you to learn how to deal with life, while sitill not in at the deep end and still in eductiaon.
 
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