"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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College, no car - date?

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Hi everyone, this seems like a cool site, I have been reading stuff for a little while now.

Anyway, I am at college and I don't have a car and there is nothing but college campus in walking distance. I wish I could ask girls out on dates but the only thing I could do would be ask them to go to on-campus movies and performances, and I don't like that idea becaues it doesn't allow for talking. Any advice on this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Take a cab. Or just meet her out.

Or just ask her to come along to gym, squash game, campus basketball game, go for a walk, come over to your dorm room and watch movie, etc...
 
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Use what you have. If there is a park around campus, take her there on a walk.

What do you do in your freetime? Sit at the college campus and study?

You can share any of your activities with women. Suck her into your own world - just make those dates interesting.

You shouldn't use "dating" in the traditional sense - there is a whole new world called "adventure dates" which open up the way to her heart much faster and more effectively.
 
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No car is no excuse - hell, chances are any girl you're going to meet is going to have a car of her own. If you can't get her to pick you up; bus systems, cabs, friends, and a decent bike can get you where you need to go.
 
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Ask a friend to borrow one, I mean heck , tell him you'll fill up the tank for him (do this before the date).

Taking a cab is going to be a little werid especially if she herself has a car.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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