"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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College is almost in Session! Got 6 different HB(s) Number! (Advice Needed)

aznxboi

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Wassup fellas,

This summer I went to two different summer camps. I manage to get 6 different numbers from these girls. All of them live at least 3 hours away from me. But, I kept in contact with them and talk to them on the phone at least once. A few of them have boyfriends or currently dating. Also, I shoot them a random text every now and then. Just simple text.

The thing is, I want all these girls. But, I'm afraid my reputation is at stake. The college I go to is quite small, world spread fast around the campus. I don't want to known as a player. I know a few guys that went he player route, and they are known throughout the whole dormitory and girls are extremely aware of it and staying away from them.

Fellas, what would you do in my shoes?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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aznxboi said:
Wassup fellas,

This summer I went to two different summer camps. I manage to get 6 different numbers from these girls. All of them live at least 3 hours away from me. But, I kept in contact with them and talk to them on the phone at least once. A few of them have boyfriends or currently dating. Also, I shoot them a random text every now and then. Just simple text.

The thing is, I want all these girls. But, I'm afraid my reputation is at stake. The college I go to is quite small, world spread fast around the campus. I don't want to known as a player. I know a few guys that went he player route, and they are known throughout the whole dormitory and girls are extremely aware of it and staying away from them.

Fellas, what would you do in my shoes?
First of all, next the girls with bfs. You aren't going to steal a girl from 3 hours away. Also I don't think it would be difficult to keep things on the dl with girls who don't even go to the school . Most importantly, worry about your schoolwork, not your rep. If your school is any good people will be focused on academics and "rep" won't matter
 

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When school starts all these girls will be here. Just as of now, they live a little far from my reach.
 
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