"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Thyme

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im not in chicago man. but ive been here for a week exactly and ive gotten about 7-8 numbers of all attractive chics. so i have pretty much gotten over my AA and i can number close pretty much every time. now im workin on creating the sexual tension, ya know? thats a big one for me
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Unbridled_Phoenix

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Don't sweat the boyfriends. You're Joe Cool with all of em, and even if you don't bang her, she will introduce you to one that you will bang. Build your roster, college is like sexual network marketing.

God, those were the days! The river dries up a bit after college, so make hay while you can!
 

fertileTurtle

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2 or 3 per a week probably. And yes "make hay while you stay."
 

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From my experiences in college the hardest thing is to be seen as a sex worthy male. I think Johnny Soporno or maybe RSD is credited with that term.

Basically women divide men into two categories; men that are sex worthy and those that aren't. If a man is sex worthy she may or may not have sex with you. If she doesn't have sex with you she'll probably try to hook you up with a friend of hers. If she doesn't think you are sex worthy she won't have sex with you nor will she try to get you to hook up with any of her friends. Basically if you aren't good enough for her, you aren't good enough for her friends.

For most of my life I haven't been a sex worthy male. That's how I manged to get through a few years of Jr. College and one year of university without hooking up with any girls I knew or getting introduced to other girls by the girls I was "friends" with.

Once the barrier is broken and you are seen as a sex worthy male, it should be much easier to keep getting laid. It's like a snowball rolling down a mountain that gets huge. But the hardest step is climbing that mountain.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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nateistoraw

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omega05 said:
i go to UIUC :cool:
Thats like totally kewl. You like the corn-fields out there? I have some friends who go there now.

Also, does your school even have commuters like uic or all the students reside in dorms or nearby apartments?
 

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Maxtro said:
From my experiences in college the hardest thing is to be seen as a #### worthy male. I think Johnny So####o or maybe RSD is credited with that term.

Basically women divide men into two categories; men that are #### worthy and those that aren't. If a man is #### worthy she may or may not have #### with you. If she doesn't have #### with you she'll probably try to hook you up with a friend of hers. If she doesn't think you are #### worthy she won't have #### with you nor will she try to get you to hook up with any of her friends. Basically if you aren't good enough for her, you aren't good enough for her friends.

For most of my life I haven't been a #### worthy male. That's how I manged to get through a few years of Jr. College and one year of university without hooking up with any girls I knew or getting introduced to other girls by the girls I was "friends" with.

Once the barrier is broken and you are seen as a #### worthy male, it should be much easier to keep getting laid. It's like a snowball rolling down a mountain that gets huge. But the hardest step is climbing that mountain.

If a chick wanna fvck then she'll fvck, no questions. If not then find another chick

I ain't about being no damn sex worthy man, it's gettin balls and fvckin chicks

You must be drugged out on pvssy cuz you treatin it like gold right now

just go after the **** if you want it, but remember it ain't sh1t
 

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nateistoraw said:
Thats like totally kewl. You like the corn-fields out there? I have some friends who go there now.

Also, does your school even have commuters like uic or all the students reside in dorms or nearby apartments?
Lol its not all cornfields and most stay in dorms or apartments. Lots of females to choose from though
 

nateistoraw

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well this is a main problem:
"well my boyfriend bla bla bla"
"ummm, sorry but I have a boyfriend"
"well i got to go meet my boyfriend"

lol, it not kewl to say phrases like that to ppl.
 

jtrain 289

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i came to college on the 14th of august i have made out 5 times since then nothing more and i havent even done that since last friday im reallyu pissed their guys here who have ****ed 9 times already it really pisses me off. and these guys didnt know the irls until they got to college.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Prodigy746

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Today i got 4 numbers from one class by forming a study group. One girl actually came up and said "i want to be in your study group, i dont know anyone in class" so there was 4 girls standing around me... I took a peace of paper and had them write their name and phone number. After they gave me their numbers i smiled and said "wow thats too many girls, i am the only guys, too much estrogen for me" Girls laughed and than i turned to the closest guy and asked if he was interested in joining our study group. Ofcourse he said yah and put his phone number down. I said i was gonna text them the time and see when they wanna do it.
 

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Prodigy746 said:
Today i got 4 numbers from one class by forming a study group. One girl actually came up and said "i want to be in your study group, i dont know anyone in class" so there was 4 girls standing around me... I took a peace of paper and had them write their name and phone number. After they gave me their numbers i smiled and said "wow thats too many girls, i am the only guys, too much estrogen for me" Girls laughed and than i turned to the closest guy and asked if he was interested in joining our study group. Ofcourse he said yah and put his phone number down. I said i was gonna text them the time and see when they wanna do it.
I wouldn't have invited the other guy...its easier to game when you're alone. You could've had a golden opportunity.
 

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Any tips for those who go to commuter schools? I got 2 weeks to get prepared for my last year, and honestly I've been dormant for most of my college life.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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nateistoraw

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Well I am a commuter as well to UIC(About 20% of UIC students live in dorms). The trick is to not go home til night time. The later you go home, the more people you can meet.
 

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Im seeing a lot of good stuff going on here, and a little bad stuff.

Basically, you get these hot girls numbers, and they have boyfriends. WHO GIVES A ****! Don't just delete them from you're phone and not talk to them. That makes you like EVERY other guy out there. Are we every other guy? No.

Does that mean you have to try to seduce them? Not yet.

One of two things will happen. They will break up with their boyfriend and you will be there.

But more likely, they will hook YOU UP! Hot girls have hot friends, and get into the hottest parties.

I have a **** ton of friends who are females, because I'm a social creature. I literally care about them, because I love meeting people. I met this girl last semester and rreally liked her, it didnt work out, so I said **** it she's super cool so lets be friends. I started pursuing other women and we are super tight now, and in return I'm now hanging out and gaming all her hot friends.

So just because they have a bf doesn't mean you should delete it and move on. Be that guy who is the life of the party, who wants to meet EVERYONE and is the center of attention. The guy who Hot girls want to be around, and who hangs around with the hottest women. Socially proof yourself, gentleman.
 

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I remember Freshman year of college -- most girls started with boyfriends back home.

Guess how many of those girls ended up marrying their high school sweethearts?
 

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nateistoraw said:
Well I am a commuter as well to UIC(About 20% of UIC students live in dorms). The trick is to not go home til night time. The later you go home, the more people you can meet.
What do you do in the mean time? All I see are people on their laptops or studying or eating. Do you go bother them?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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