"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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college guys.. does this work...

Crestpaste

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lets say you know a girl from class.. not fairly well, havent really chilled outside of class other than met a couple times to work on a project together. except you can tell theres attraction on her part. would it be cool to just email the girl and be like lets study.. in my dorm.. and then just make moves and try to get laid? how to go from studying to having sex?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Pathgen

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start with studying to building comfort. comfort to kino. kino to kissing. kissing to fondling. fondling to playing naked. playing to sex.

Or do your own thing as the situation warrants. for instance if your on a dorm bed studying playfully hit her with a pillow.
 

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I've found "lets study together" is an awesome way to get a girl alone, and having a dorm room is perfect. first say lets study together, and then just say, i've got everything here, why not just come over? make sure you don't have chairs in the room and she's already on your bed-half the battle's already over.
 

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No1ustad said:
I've found "lets study together" is an awesome way to get a girl alone, and having a dorm room is perfect. first say lets study together, and then just say, i've got everything here, why not just come over? make sure you don't have chairs in the room and she's already on your bed-half the battle's already over.
i have one big computer chair in my room. and my computer.
 

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you lucky SOB.

sorry, I'd love to be in your position...I go to a community college and don't have a dorm. gaaah. I'd sooooooooo abuse the study date.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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doing it thursday as we speak, shes even making me dinner first! oooooooo ya. haha. Gotta use kino.
 

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I say go for it. What do you have to lose? Try to create a sexual ambience in your room when she comes over, and have some adult beverages ready to loosen up. Make sure you have some Magnum XL's handy in case things go well.
 

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yea im gonna go for it. most girls know that doing anything in a guys dorm = sex right?
 

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Crestpaste, you should definately go for it, but I don't think "anything in a guys dorm = sex." Just because she's attracted to you, doesn't mean she's gonna get down. Just go with the flow, and do your thing, but don't be too forceful. And as AKA FLEX said, have some jimmy hats just in case (Magnums aren't exactly necessary haha). Good luck...
 

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Just make sure you don't sound like you're inviting her over to have sex. Being ambigious works wonders, even though you both know that something MAY happen. Girls love the sexual tension. Keep it ambigious.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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