"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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College Guy Seeks Specific Advice

Vikman

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I've been on this site for a few years now. I've learned a lot of basic strategies that has helped me out before. But I have an important opportunity that I need help with. And not just any general help, I am looking for specific and detailed advice for handling this situation.

I'm a college student. There's a girl on my campus. I've spoken to her before, but it's been on and off. I see her maybe every few weeks. I have her number too, but that's beside the point. I bumped into her tonight. We talked a lot more. A good conversation. She just turned 21 (but she's not really a drinker, no bf, not many friends) and she's never been to the bar in town. I invited her to the bar tommorow "Hey, I'm heading to the bar on Saturday. Come with me". But not this Saturday she's not. Instead, she wanted to see the comedian who's perfoming on campus tommorow because she grew up near him or something. She is going to see the comedian. When she left me tonight, she asked me If I was going to the comedian. I told her 'maybe'.

Of course I'm going to the comedian tommorow. Duh. I need a good plan. I need to know specifically what to do tommorow night to take her to the next level. I anticipate the show being no more than an hour and a half. She lives in a dorm with a roomate. I have my own my room, wink, wink. Any specific info please?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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rushing dude 123

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dude don't worry about that just relax and have a lot of fun, their would always b next time, so don't feel no matter what u have to bang her this night, their will b others. Just want to make sure u have ur options avaliable to u, because if ur like that u might come off bit creepy and bit desperate. Anyway if your having good time feeling the vibe want to escalate it bit more, just say something like "alright i am going to probs stay up bit for now, but ur kool to chill out mine maybe we can watch movie crack open a few beers, but yeh we can have bit of fun (seductive tone) ....has long as u promise to keep ur hands to urself for now.... i know it will b hard but u gotta try."
or "lets head over mine and have a few beers"

Just keep good kino, don't feel need to touch everytime u get chance to, just when u feel it instinctivly, do it right and she will feel very sexual u can just finish the job.

Don't over complicate things and just remember no need to rush (i really got to stop telling people to stop rushing when i am the rushing dude lol), their will b other nights if needed to be. JUST HAVE FUN.
 
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