"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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College Guy Seeks Specific Advice

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I've been on this site for a few years now. I've learned a lot of basic strategies that has helped me out before. But I have an important opportunity that I need help with. And not just any general help, I am looking for specific and detailed advice for handling this situation.

I'm a college student. There's a girl on my campus. I've spoken to her before, but it's been on and off. I see her maybe every few weeks. I have her number too, but that's beside the point. I bumped into her tonight. We talked a lot more. A good conversation. She just turned 21 (but she's not really a drinker, no bf, not many friends) and she's never been to the bar in town. I invited her to the bar tommorow "Hey, I'm heading to the bar on Saturday. Come with me". But not this Saturday she's not. Instead, she wanted to see the comedian who's perfoming on campus tommorow because she grew up near him or something. She is going to see the comedian. When she left me tonight, she asked me If I was going to the comedian. I told her 'maybe'.

Of course I'm going to the comedian tommorow. Duh. I need a good plan. I need to know specifically what to do tommorow night to take her to the next level. I anticipate the show being no more than an hour and a half. She lives in a dorm with a roomate. I have my own my room, wink, wink. Any specific info please?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dude don't worry about that just relax and have a lot of fun, their would always b next time, so don't feel no matter what u have to bang her this night, their will b others. Just want to make sure u have ur options avaliable to u, because if ur like that u might come off bit creepy and bit desperate. Anyway if your having good time feeling the vibe want to escalate it bit more, just say something like "alright i am going to probs stay up bit for now, but ur kool to chill out mine maybe we can watch movie crack open a few beers, but yeh we can have bit of fun (seductive tone) ....has long as u promise to keep ur hands to urself for now.... i know it will b hard but u gotta try."
or "lets head over mine and have a few beers"

Just keep good kino, don't feel need to touch everytime u get chance to, just when u feel it instinctivly, do it right and she will feel very sexual u can just finish the job.

Don't over complicate things and just remember no need to rush (i really got to stop telling people to stop rushing when i am the rushing dude lol), their will b other nights if needed to be. JUST HAVE FUN.
 
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