"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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coolness89

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Guys I have a bit of a problem.

I met this girl a month ago in college, we added each other on facebook, had a convo there. In person, I rarely see her. We have some classes together, but like today, I soo wanted to talk to her and get her number, but she left.
I know she likes me (its easy to tell lol), and I like her too, want to get to know her. But the problem is after class she goes and studies in the caf/library. We have only hung out once and that too for a very short period (& i mean very short).

So today, I feel like ****, since she left right after class ended. And I'm blaming myself, saying that I didnt have the guts to go up to her etc.
Is it my fault?? She knows what my intentions are...and me and her both know wht her intentions are...is she right to play hard to get??
Should I move on.
I dont know what to do . ARGGGGHH

thanks guys
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is she right to play hard to get?!? Wtf man? :p She should have known that you would go and talk to her? She might had something important to do after college! She might she might she might...! If you are so sure that she likes you just GO next time you see her! Give her your number and tell her to call you when she is able to, since she is studying and staff so much! I think it's easy to do since you guys talk through fb... Go for it!!
 
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Dude, take a deep-breath -- this isn't cataclysmic it is simple - the thing is that you are fixating (oneitising) on her and so it is feeling life/death to you. You've already paved the highway so why are you scared to drive the car? Just go up to her and ask her for her number.

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She doesn't give me a damn opportunity to even come up and say hi. Right now I'm questioning her interest level. Talking to her...i notice shes a bit of a shy girl in the start, so I think thats an issue as well
 
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