“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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coolness89

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Guys I have a bit of a problem.

I met this girl a month ago in college, we added each other on facebook, had a convo there. In person, I rarely see her. We have some classes together, but like today, I soo wanted to talk to her and get her number, but she left.
I know she likes me (its easy to tell lol), and I like her too, want to get to know her. But the problem is after class she goes and studies in the caf/library. We have only hung out once and that too for a very short period (& i mean very short).

So today, I feel like ****, since she left right after class ended. And I'm blaming myself, saying that I didnt have the guts to go up to her etc.
Is it my fault?? She knows what my intentions are...and me and her both know wht her intentions are...is she right to play hard to get??
Should I move on.
I dont know what to do . ARGGGGHH

thanks guys
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DonJuanit0

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Is she right to play hard to get?!? Wtf man? :p She should have known that you would go and talk to her? She might had something important to do after college! She might she might she might...! If you are so sure that she likes you just GO next time you see her! Give her your number and tell her to call you when she is able to, since she is studying and staff so much! I think it's easy to do since you guys talk through fb... Go for it!!
 

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Dude, take a deep-breath -- this isn't cataclysmic it is simple - the thing is that you are fixating (oneitising) on her and so it is feeling life/death to you. You've already paved the highway so why are you scared to drive the car? Just go up to her and ask her for her number.

TC
 

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She doesn't give me a damn opportunity to even come up and say hi. Right now I'm questioning her interest level. Talking to her...i notice shes a bit of a shy girl in the start, so I think thats an issue as well
 
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