Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Dimehair

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I take a math class at a local state school, but still in high school. There's a hot girl in the class who I feel likes me. We haven't talked much; last week when leaving class we had a fifteen second conversation that I initiated before we had to part different ways through the halls. Today, right before I went my way and left the college forever (for tonight), she stopped me and asked some crap question about what the prof said. I should have continued the convo, but I didn't want to miss my bus. Back in HS last week, one of my friends said "You fvck one of them college b!tches yet? All you gotta do is tell 'em you're still in high school!"
I have that class again on Wednesday, and I plan on talking to her. If it comes up, and if I want to make it come up, should I just tell her I'm a highschooler?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The hell would telling her you are a high schooler do?
If anything, it would make her less attracted to you; girls are generally attracted to men older than him.
 

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Well, every natural that I've talked to at school had sex at a young age to an older girl. So it's not like girls don't have sex with gruesomely younger guys, like a 16 year old girl having sex with an 11 year old. Obviously, my exact words aren't going to be "Oh, and speaking of fine wine, I'm a high school junior." And I'm not saying that subtly implying that I'm younger will automatically make her seat damp. I just think that it might affect the interaction, like loosen it up or make her want to work to get me. Again, these are just my thoughts. I don't think my friend would steer me wrong: I'm pretty sure he first sexed an older teen as a prepubescent. Still, bringing it up might be a bad idea. I'm open to opinions.
 

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DONT BRING IT UP. That simple , tell her the truth when you think she knows your younger, other than that play the game! I guess you can say i have experience with this, some how i landed a 22 year old, posted a thread on the DJ Forum,,, kinda need some help with this one though> best luck:rockon:
 

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to be honest, you never know. the fact that you are a high school student might turn her on because that would mean that if you bone her, she's performing an illegal act since you're under 18. then again...that exact same thing could turn her off. good luck with that bud
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BlakeW5

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Don't bother mentioning it. If she asks tell her, but otherwise no. All telling her would accomplish would be turning the age difference thing into an issue. Chances are she doesn't have a fetish for defiling younger guys. Chicks her age, and chicks in general, tend to go for guys around their age or just a little older. And before someone tries to prove me wrong I said "tend to" not "always".

I doubt she'd want a potential guy who turned out to be underage. She'll assume you're immature, that you live with mommy and daddy, you can't go to clubs, can't legally drink, etc, etc. All things girls around that age like to do. Just play the game
 

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studentpay said:
to be honest, you never know. the fact that you are a high school student might turn her on because that would mean that if you bone her, she's performing an illegal act since you're under 18. then again...that exact same thing could turn her off. good luck with that bud
yup,,what he said.

In fact,,in your situation,,I'd act like she is WAY YOUNGER than I am,,and I'd say things like,,*sigh* kids these days...
 
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