"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I keep hearing about what college life is like: SEX SEX SEX. I have a girl who's going to college soon and I might just dump her cuz it sounds like gils lose all their inhibitions in college. Correct me if Im wrong. BTW Im in high school now.

What is college life like? Do all girls lose their virginity and or sleep with everybody? I at least wanna know the percentages.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well it depends on what country you're in, for starters.
 
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I'm a senior in college so maybe this will help...

Ok first of all, when a girl goes off to college she is usually getting a taste of freedom for the first time. Keep that in mind.

She is going to have more options dating-wise. She is no longer forced to date the local guys in the town she grew up in, or the local high school she went to in her hometown... And trust me if she is somewhat attractive dudes are gonna be hounding her. And they won't give a damn about her relationship back home with you. She will be fair game, and fresh-meat. Keep that in mind.

Freshmen girls are usually easier too...

I've seen a lot of quiet innocent girls come to my college campus and get turned out into party girls. By like the 3rd or 4th week of school.

People change when they go off to college, they get in a new circle of friends and they usually conform to act more like their friends...

Of course there is more sexual activity going on a college campus. Like I said people are usually getting freedom for the first time. They don't have to sneak around under their parent's roof. They can just go to their dorm room and turn the lights off. But not everyone is having sex. Its not like one of those American Pie movies or anything.

If I were you i'd let the girl go. She is gonna change and she will probably be getting some d i c k from some dude at college. If you do stay with her, if I were you i'd have girls on the side. But if you stay with this girl with the intention that both of you are gonna be faithful, YOU WILL GET YOUR FEELINGS HURT...
 
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I agree with Kupid and I would like to place a little note.

My current girlfriend went to college and didn't become a big party girl or anything. A lot of my friends have not become party-goers. It all depends individually on the person.

Other friends have become the biggest partiers.

Usually one can tell how one will end up due to how they acted in high school.

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Kupid Diggs said:
I'm a senior in college so maybe this will help...

Ok first of all, when a girl goes off to college she is usually getting a taste of freedom for the first time. Keep that in mind.

She is going to have more options dating-wise. She is no longer forced to date the local guys in the town she grew up in, or the local high school she went to in her hometown... And trust me if she is somewhat attractive dudes are gonna be hounding her. And they won't give a damn about her relationship back home with you. She will be fair game, and fresh-meat. Keep that in mind.

Freshmen girls are usually easier too...

I've seen a lot of quiet innocent girls come to my college campus and get turned out into party girls. By like the 3rd or 4th week of school.

People change when they go off to college, they get in a new circle of friends and they usually conform to act more like their friends...

Of course there is more sexual activity going on a college campus. Like I said people are usually getting freedom for the first time. They don't have to sneak around under their parent's roof. They can just go to their dorm room and turn the lights off. But not everyone is having sex. Its not like one of those American Pie movies or anything.

If I were you i'd let the girl go. She is gonna change and she will probably be getting some d i c k from some dude at college. If you do stay with her, if I were you i'd have girls on the side. But if you stay with this girl with the intention that both of you are gonna be faithful, YOU WILL GET YOUR FEELINGS HURT...
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Kupid hit the bulls eye. 100% on point and exactly what i would of said.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Like Pook said. It's not women's fault. It's guys. If a girl leaves you and start f*ckin in college, to her you're just not worth it. Other than that, you just have your self a bad chick. If you do have a good chick, you'd be stupid to let her go. Good girls are hard to find!~
 
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Btw, it's not about college. If you work on yourself you'll get chicks no matter where you go. A lot of guys in college don't get laid. Once chicks hit the age of 18 all of them are fresh for the picking no matter where they are. Don't think just because you're in college you'll get some p*ssy, or that they have free puss*es in the cafeteria or something!~
 
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