"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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College gils question

ghostrider943

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I keep hearing about what college life is like: SEX SEX SEX. I have a girl who's going to college soon and I might just dump her cuz it sounds like gils lose all their inhibitions in college. Correct me if Im wrong. BTW Im in high school now.

What is college life like? Do all girls lose their virginity and or sleep with everybody? I at least wanna know the percentages.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Smack

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Well it depends on what country you're in, for starters.
 

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I'm a senior in college so maybe this will help...

Ok first of all, when a girl goes off to college she is usually getting a taste of freedom for the first time. Keep that in mind.

She is going to have more options dating-wise. She is no longer forced to date the local guys in the town she grew up in, or the local high school she went to in her hometown... And trust me if she is somewhat attractive dudes are gonna be hounding her. And they won't give a damn about her relationship back home with you. She will be fair game, and fresh-meat. Keep that in mind.

Freshmen girls are usually easier too...

I've seen a lot of quiet innocent girls come to my college campus and get turned out into party girls. By like the 3rd or 4th week of school.

People change when they go off to college, they get in a new circle of friends and they usually conform to act more like their friends...

Of course there is more sexual activity going on a college campus. Like I said people are usually getting freedom for the first time. They don't have to sneak around under their parent's roof. They can just go to their dorm room and turn the lights off. But not everyone is having sex. Its not like one of those American Pie movies or anything.

If I were you i'd let the girl go. She is gonna change and she will probably be getting some d i c k from some dude at college. If you do stay with her, if I were you i'd have girls on the side. But if you stay with this girl with the intention that both of you are gonna be faithful, YOU WILL GET YOUR FEELINGS HURT...
 

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I agree with Kupid and I would like to place a little note.

My current girlfriend went to college and didn't become a big party girl or anything. A lot of my friends have not become party-goers. It all depends individually on the person.

Other friends have become the biggest partiers.

Usually one can tell how one will end up due to how they acted in high school.

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In2theGame

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Kupid Diggs said:
I'm a senior in college so maybe this will help...

Ok first of all, when a girl goes off to college she is usually getting a taste of freedom for the first time. Keep that in mind.

She is going to have more options dating-wise. She is no longer forced to date the local guys in the town she grew up in, or the local high school she went to in her hometown... And trust me if she is somewhat attractive dudes are gonna be hounding her. And they won't give a damn about her relationship back home with you. She will be fair game, and fresh-meat. Keep that in mind.

Freshmen girls are usually easier too...

I've seen a lot of quiet innocent girls come to my college campus and get turned out into party girls. By like the 3rd or 4th week of school.

People change when they go off to college, they get in a new circle of friends and they usually conform to act more like their friends...

Of course there is more sexual activity going on a college campus. Like I said people are usually getting freedom for the first time. They don't have to sneak around under their parent's roof. They can just go to their dorm room and turn the lights off. But not everyone is having sex. Its not like one of those American Pie movies or anything.

If I were you i'd let the girl go. She is gonna change and she will probably be getting some d i c k from some dude at college. If you do stay with her, if I were you i'd have girls on the side. But if you stay with this girl with the intention that both of you are gonna be faithful, YOU WILL GET YOUR FEELINGS HURT...
Kupid hit the bulls eye. 100% on point and exactly what i would of said.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Like Pook said. It's not women's fault. It's guys. If a girl leaves you and start f*ckin in college, to her you're just not worth it. Other than that, you just have your self a bad chick. If you do have a good chick, you'd be stupid to let her go. Good girls are hard to find!~
 

vagrant

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Btw, it's not about college. If you work on yourself you'll get chicks no matter where you go. A lot of guys in college don't get laid. Once chicks hit the age of 18 all of them are fresh for the picking no matter where they are. Don't think just because you're in college you'll get some p*ssy, or that they have free puss*es in the cafeteria or something!~
 
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