"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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NateDaGreat

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Hey guys, this is my first post. So my friends introduced me to a girl for the first time and we kind of hit it off. We hooked up that night and the next. Good for me right? Well, kind of. I get emotionally attached too easily, contrary to the way guys are supposed to act. I'm at the point where i want to ask, "What does this make us?", but i know that's complete and total suicide. She told me while we were together something along these lines : "I just broke up with my boyfriend so i want to wait and be friends before being serious again, but don't worry i wont freindzone you...".

I know that a girl doing this is probably most guy's dream, but i have anxiety all day over this girl and i definitely have more emotional connection to her than she has to me. Advice?:confused:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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fortfun_24

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Well, here's all you need to know. Classes: nothing before eleven. Beer: it's your best friend, you drink a lot. Women? You're a freshman, so it's pretty much out of the question.

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You are in hottie heaven. Spin plates so you will keep your cool with this girl. After these four years you will never again have as many good looking, young women all around you, all looking to get laid. Take advantage of this time and situation. Once it's gone, it's gone.
 
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NateDaGreat

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I gotcha. It's just that i have a severe case of oneitis... I've only been here 2 weeks so i need to work on spinning other plates like you said so i dont lose it.
 
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