"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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college forum?

dimarco

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hey...
how about a college forum?
because from personal experience it is much different than highschool.
And i dont know how much different it is from the "Real world".
So how about a college forum?
I think it would work better than having college students posting in either the highschool or regular forums and having people who are not in or have not attended a college/university answering the questions.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Oxide

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Heh. i would love to have something like this, but lets count how many college students we have

im 1.
 

dimarco

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iam 2.
iam sure we have enough to get decent discussions going.
 

THA REALNESS

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TRAY SUCKAZ !!! WHAT YA"LL NEED TO DO IS START AN EBONICS FORUM OR BETTA YET A PIMP BY BLOOD FORUM I'M TIRED OF PIMPS BY RELATIONS DAMAGING MY POSTS!!
 

Charisma

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Yeah college forum please, asap, there's plenty of 18+ people here
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MadTyteYo!

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a colledge forum would be nice
 

4afe

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yeah a college one would kick ass. in fact thats the first thing I looked for when I joined.
 

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Personally, I don't think a college forum would get that much use. If you're really in need of one though, try going into the HS or DJ forum (whichever you decide you guys prefer) and when you post there start the title off with COLLEGE. That will make college posts instantly recognizeable. Then, if the mods see that there are enough college posts that they clutter the regular forum and we be more useful in their own forum, BAM, you get what you want.
 
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