Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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College Dorm Guy/Girl Ideas

nan3109

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Do any of you guys live on campus in a dormatory and have good ideas of how to get girls more involved with the guys side of the floor which would lead to better chance of getting to know them? We tried playing golf in the hall with plastic cups and a putter game where the game entailed the possibility of taking a shot if you missed your shot, etc....

Any other ideas? Ideas for decoractions of rooms welcome too!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Barbillus

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Play the "key game"

EVeryone puts their dorm key in a basket. The guys pick the keys from teh girls basket.

The guy then gets to go back to the girls room.

If the above is too much you can use some variations of it, just be creative, and do some other activities.
 

nan3109

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Originally posted by Barbillus
Play the "key game"

EVeryone puts their dorm key in a basket. The guys pick the keys from teh girls basket.

The guy then gets to go back to the girls room.

If the above is too much you can use some variations of it, just be creative, and do some other activities.
we punch in codes, so yeah, that wouldnt work to well
 

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I personally dont live in the dorms, but I'm over there all the time with friends or girls. I dunno about where you go to school, but when i'm over on the guys floor, i find girls all the time.
and vise versa too.

I go to a public college- not too big, but still plenty of people~
 
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