College Chicks - What happens afterwards?

[evolvingnerd]

i was thinking of finding some proper female friends who do my course (currently have none)
now, i know how to approach, i read the thread in the archive
pertty much try to get EC and sit right next to her, extend hand, hi i'm freddie, and let the convo roll on
now i'm not interested in any relationship or banging or anything like that, just some social proof and some smart company
what should i do after the class?
and should i like seek her out next class/
what's the deelio ppl
cheers

 

[NRM]

Well if you aren't interested in banging or a relationship, I don't see what the problem is. You're just trying to make friends. Be friendly. If you're in college, you shouldn't need help just making friends. If you want social proof, don't be a dumbass and be nice to everyone.

 

[MikeYikes122]

Hmm... Well Freddie I haven't read the thread you speak of, or if I did it was too damn long ago and I just forgot it, but I don't know if you've got the correct approach. I've been a college student for three years now and let me tell you what I do.

I normally sit by them but not right next to them - it seems to send off a desperation vibe or something. I just don't think it's a real good idea. (but if a girl keeps sitting by you or next to you then it's obviously a good thing.) The hand shake is a bad idea. What I reccomend doing is accidently forgetting your pencil or some sh!t and leaning over and asking her for one. During this exchange smile at her, look her in the eye, and make a joke or something like that. Say maybe, "Heh you know, I can remember my notebook, I always buy the right books, and I can even remember to pee before these long a$$ classes, but I never remember a god damn pencil..." If she likes you she'll probably laugh, smile, give you the look. You know what I mean. If you get the good vibe from her, continue the conversation. "What's your major?" "Heh mine too, seeing as this journalism class..." "Where are you from?" "Oh really? I lived out there for a few years..."

After you break this barrier start sitting by her everyday and talking to her. I usually like to have a girl I sit with in everyone of my classes if it is at all possible. Eventually a weekend will roll up that you feel is opportune, ask her what she is doing, tell her YOU MIGHT give her a call if your plans fall through, and if you don't think you're looking to desperate or loserish then call her. Or better yet, wait for a group project to roll up - You should get one assigned fast because professors in college like to give their students a chance to get to know each other. Go over to her apartment or dorm room to do it, wait till her roommate is not there and fvckin let one thing lead to another.

Good luck in college buddy - it's a real fun time. I think the most important thing to remember about the college game is that basically no girl really matters. Don't give a fvck about any of them because there are so damn many...

 

[evolvingnerd]

cool
my only problem is that i have friends (guys) in all my classes, and it's hard to break away from em without seeming like a ****head, if u get what i mean
they're not real friends, just lecture buddies from last semester (ppl in my degree)
nonetheless, i was thinking of strolling in late, and just scoping things out and then sitting straight next to the chick i wanted to befriend, and open with "so did i miss anything important?"

how's that for a stratergy? any additions / subtractions
and how do i still introduce myself in such a scenario so it doesn't seem staged
thanks

 

[Omega]

Originally posted by evolvingnerd
cool
my only problem is that i have friends (guys) in all my classes, and it's hard to break away from em without seeming like a ****head, if u get what i mean
they're not real friends, just lecture buddies from last semester (ppl in my degree)
nonetheless, i was thinking of strolling in late, and just scoping things out and then sitting straight next to the chick i wanted to befriend, and open with "so did i miss anything important?"

how's that for a stratergy? any additions / subtractions
and how do i still introduce myself in such a scenario so it doesn't seem staged
thanks

You should scope in EARLY, sit down beside a HB, and ask that. Now that would be smooth

As for meeting people, you hvae to realize everyone wants to meet people as well. Alot of peopel aren't satisfied with the number of people they know and would like to broaden their horizons, especially in college.

Get the ball rolling quick before other guys get there before you.

 

[evolvingnerd]

alrighty
today i'm a just gonna walk right in and sit straight next to a chick

we'll see how things go

 

[manicmaximum]

i don't sit in the seat immediately beside them, i sit one seat away if possible. taking the seat next to hers when there are 100 empty ones might freak her out a bit or give that "i'm going to hit on you" vibe...something i personally like to avoid when just chatting someone up

if its before class, i'll just say whats up to her (or them), and then start talking about the class...i leave the names til later (during the lecture, having them whisper to you or write it on a piece of paper makes it feel a little more scandalous)

so yeah...when before class, i just make sure to always keep the convo going, those awkward silences are deadly...there should be plenty to talk about, esp in a school town...fav bar, what you did last weekend, where you live, etc etc.

btw strolling in late is not always a bad thing. when youre walking around looking for a seat, a lot of ppl are secretly looking at you, perfect time to show great body language

 

[evolvingnerd]

so it appears ther are some conflicting ideas here about whether or not to actually sit next to them, or a little away
remember ppl, i'm not out to get into anything yet, just make some friends

anyway, keep the perspectives coming plz
as for an update, *unforunatley* met some friends
will definitley try tomorrow
in tomorrow's class, i saw this good lookin girl on her own, kinda smart looking, definitley wanna befriend her

cheers

 

[Omega]

Originally posted by evolvingnerd
so it appears ther are some conflicting ideas here about whether or not to actually sit next to them, or a little away
remember ppl, i'm not out to get into anything yet, just make some friends

anyway, keep the perspectives coming plz
as for an update, *unforunatley* met some friends
will definitley try tomorrow
in tomorrow's class, i saw this good lookin girl on her own, kinda smart looking, definitley wanna befriend her

cheers

Sit beside her! Wtf, are you going to telepathicly talk to her?

 

[Chemistry]

However good an action plan you might have for yourself you've got to remember that first impressions have been key...

If the girls on your course already got you down as a geek then it don't matter if you turn up next week and sit next to them an talk the talk, they've categorised you and are gonna be very suspect and not too receptive... more likely they'll have a laugh at you with their girlfriends on the course after, lol...

 

[4afe]

Whatever Dude don't listen to Ashley Chuckles. There are so many women in college and every one is so wrapped up in their own sht they could careless about judging other people. I have a question, why the hell dont you want a fvck buddy? I use the girls in class for conv but I usually go to the "mall" (thats what its called at my university) or library to pick up. It really doesnt go over well, if they are freshmen, used to the old high school sweetheart thing (sitting next to each other, passing notes, that stuff). If you want a "friend" goto a damn club, there are only few hundred in each college.

 

[evolvingnerd]

well i'm catholic and i wanna save myself for marriage
besides, the myself and the people i enjoy hanging out with are naturally more timid
i'm not lookin to become someone who can get any girl he wants
i wanna keep being me, but just imrpve my confidence so when any opportunities arise, i do'nt fvck up

oh, and at ashley knucles
even if i am a nerd at heart, i certainly do'nt look it, and am pretty sure i'm good looiking (get checked out all the time
at least to all the aunties and older women i know - they've verbally admitted to my mum