WC2
Master Don Juan
I'm fairly new to the boards, but I've decided to lay some tips down when it comes to going out and clubbing. I've been to college for about a year, hung out with the biggest DJs on campus, and thus started becoming one.
What to Wear
For starters, take a look around when you go out to a club. Take a look around and look at the guys who ARE talking to girls. What are they wearing?
See the thing is, it's not really about what you wear, but the attitude you bring with it. I find setting yourself apart from the crowd works very well with women. If everyone is wearing a tee shirt and jeans, take it up a notch and wear something classy. A button down with black pants and black shoes will do the trick. Unbutton the first 2 top buttons and walk around like you've got something about you. You'll notice you'll be getting looks from all directions not just because you look pimped out, but because you look like you have more important things to do than sit there and get wasted.
The opposite applies in some situations. If it's a nice place where everyone's pimped out, sometimes a nice muscle tee, jeans, and some stylish sneaks (nikes make some stylish styles) might do the trick.
How to handle yourself
SMILE. Take a look around the club. Check out all the guys sitting there not talking to girls. I garuntee you one thing; They're rarely smiling! Now look at all the guys talking to girls. They're most likely smiling, showing a vast amount of facial expression. Girls want to have fun, and they sure know they aren't going to have fun with a guy sitting there with a boring face.
While it's cool to have guy friends to chill with at the club, make that sort of like your safe spot. Be adventerous and strike up conversations with ladies. If you've already set yourself apart with what you wear, and how you're handling yourself, you're bound to get some looks from girls. Find one of those girls whos looked at you and looked away real quick and make a move. Nothing fancy, just go up to her, introduce yourself and talk for a few minutes than walk away. If she's interested, she'll come back. It's a sad thing to see when a guy gets a look from a girl, only to go over and overwhelm her for 20 minutes with indept conversation. Don't act like shes doing you a favor, act like you're doing her a favor by even approaching her. Girls want a chase, not to be chased.
Laptops running out of batt, so thats all for now - I'll post more later
What to Wear
For starters, take a look around when you go out to a club. Take a look around and look at the guys who ARE talking to girls. What are they wearing?
See the thing is, it's not really about what you wear, but the attitude you bring with it. I find setting yourself apart from the crowd works very well with women. If everyone is wearing a tee shirt and jeans, take it up a notch and wear something classy. A button down with black pants and black shoes will do the trick. Unbutton the first 2 top buttons and walk around like you've got something about you. You'll notice you'll be getting looks from all directions not just because you look pimped out, but because you look like you have more important things to do than sit there and get wasted.
The opposite applies in some situations. If it's a nice place where everyone's pimped out, sometimes a nice muscle tee, jeans, and some stylish sneaks (nikes make some stylish styles) might do the trick.
How to handle yourself
SMILE. Take a look around the club. Check out all the guys sitting there not talking to girls. I garuntee you one thing; They're rarely smiling! Now look at all the guys talking to girls. They're most likely smiling, showing a vast amount of facial expression. Girls want to have fun, and they sure know they aren't going to have fun with a guy sitting there with a boring face.
While it's cool to have guy friends to chill with at the club, make that sort of like your safe spot. Be adventerous and strike up conversations with ladies. If you've already set yourself apart with what you wear, and how you're handling yourself, you're bound to get some looks from girls. Find one of those girls whos looked at you and looked away real quick and make a move. Nothing fancy, just go up to her, introduce yourself and talk for a few minutes than walk away. If she's interested, she'll come back. It's a sad thing to see when a guy gets a look from a girl, only to go over and overwhelm her for 20 minutes with indept conversation. Don't act like shes doing you a favor, act like you're doing her a favor by even approaching her. Girls want a chase, not to be chased.
Laptops running out of batt, so thats all for now - I'll post more later