"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Collection of Opinion Openers

GodsGiftToFatBirds

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Lets make a collection of opinion openers - you know, when you ask a woman's (or a group's) opinion on something, in order to get chatting.

Did a search for these, couldn't find that much, the ones that i did come across were 'who lies more, men or women?' and 'would you go out with a guy who lived in a tent?'
Yeh, both of these could work, but lets see if anyone's got anything better.

I'll kick things off:

This ones specifically for approaching a group in a club while overlooking the dance floor (like looking down from a balcony), go up to a group and be like 'hey girls mind if i ask you a question, i need an opinion? If you were to choose a girl (beckoning to dance floor) to take home for a night of hot passionate lovemaking, which one would you pick?'
Reckon if you said it right (gotta be half joking) and avoid a slap, it'd be a good one for getting the banter going. I haven't tested it yet as i've only just thought it up.

But anyway, that's mine, lets hear some more!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This one works nearly anywhere anytime with almost no skill involved.

Grab some kinda magazine, picture, newspaper, item, anything! then just "examine" it, and turn to her and ask, "what do you think of how X looks?" or "Can you believe X!?" or "What is your opinion about X?" This is a great, simple, mindless way to open, then your on your own to keep things moving.

I used a car magazine in a Barnes and Noble to field test this one, and it didn't let me down! Would've number closed but she mentioned a BF. Oh well, this one is field tested, DJ approved!
 
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