"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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cold reading --> girl talks about her life --> psychology session

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everytime i try cold reading, or talk about some emotional bs with a girl, she talks back with what happened in her life, blah blah blah, so when this happens, what should i do?
i know im not supposed to offer any solutions or become her therapist, so is just sitting there, kino, and listening good enough? or should i try to end the convo or just get away?

thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sexy_kuta

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just change the subject.. if shes feeling down.. crying then resure her then change the subject but if shes just chapping and talkin in gerernal about her past problems.. change the subject right away dont even listen to it..

tell her thats the past and this is the present... we shouldnt talk about it
 

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you want girls talking about themselves. you want it getting emotional. this is emotional connection, and the key to a woman's heart.

Don't be a tampon. Don't be a therapist. Just relate to her. If she talks about an emotional experience, talk about one that is similar that you experienced.

Come from a dominant masculine, secure frame, and you'll be just fine.

Remember the kino
 
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so how would i show my dominant masculine frame in an interaction like this, i 'll remember to keep up the kino and the mavec too
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So Many Ways said:
Dude, that's a good thing. You can use that to your advantage.
can you give examples how and why it is a good thing?
 
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