"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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cold reading --> girl talks about her life --> psychology session

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everytime i try cold reading, or talk about some emotional bs with a girl, she talks back with what happened in her life, blah blah blah, so when this happens, what should i do?
i know im not supposed to offer any solutions or become her therapist, so is just sitting there, kino, and listening good enough? or should i try to end the convo or just get away?

thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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sexy_kuta

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just change the subject.. if shes feeling down.. crying then resure her then change the subject but if shes just chapping and talkin in gerernal about her past problems.. change the subject right away dont even listen to it..

tell her thats the past and this is the present... we shouldnt talk about it
 

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you want girls talking about themselves. you want it getting emotional. this is emotional connection, and the key to a woman's heart.

Don't be a tampon. Don't be a therapist. Just relate to her. If she talks about an emotional experience, talk about one that is similar that you experienced.

Come from a dominant masculine, secure frame, and you'll be just fine.

Remember the kino
 
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so how would i show my dominant masculine frame in an interaction like this, i 'll remember to keep up the kino and the mavec too
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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kickureface

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So Many Ways said:
Dude, that's a good thing. You can use that to your advantage.
can you give examples how and why it is a good thing?
 
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