Cold hi from a girl which hates me.

[astrn]

There is a oneitis who she liked me so much that I messed up very badly almost a 3 weeks ago. She deleted me from facebook without any legit reason then started to bang with other guys.

Now I see her almost everyday around with alone or with her roommate who also give me a cold shoulder.

Current thing that I am doing is completely ignoring her. Not even saying a hi. But when she sees me she give me a very cold hi like she still hates me but willing to talk.

Yesterday I was waiting to cross street and she appeared next to me and said hi. I asked for a smoke and she gave me then I left saying with ser you around without looking her.

Today almost 1 hr ago I went to a sushi restaurant. She was inside with her roommate. I simply ignored and ordered my food then sat outside. When they leave I was talking with my cellphone and she and her roommate gave me another cold hi. Just said see ya and continued my business.

I still in NC to get over from her completely but this random encounters makes me a little bit tense and the way she acts towards me makes me want to talk with her in a "what is your problem" or "lets talk" manner. I know if I try this she is just try to LJBF bull**** or gonna say nothing!

She will gonna back to her country in 4 weeks I think.

I simply see the best option is still NC and move on. What do u think guys?

 

[astrn]

Also even I am still like her I hate her because of the thing that was dumping and starting to bang with other guys.

 

[Starfvcks 64]

I still in NC to get over from her completely but this random encounters makes me a little bit tense and the way she acts towards me makes me want to talk with her in a "what is your problem" or "lets talk" manner. I know if I try this she is just try to LJBF bull**** or gonna say nothing!

Which is EXACTLY what she wants. More than anything she wants attention from you, even if it is negative. Girls crave attention. That is why complete NC is so effective. You can tell her you hate her, and you think she is stupid, but she will still gain some type of pleasure in that. She still got attention. It shows you still care.

The best thing you can do is to keep ignoring her, and keep her out of your life as much as possible. If you ever do need to interact with her, keep it calm, polite and emotionless, as if you were talking to a stranger.

 

[VladPatton]

Which is EXACTLY what she wants. More than anything she wants attention from you, even if it is negative. Girls crave attention. That is why complete NC is so effective. You can tell her you hate her, and you think she is stupid, but she will still gain some type of pleasure in that. She still got attention. It shows you still care.

The best thing you can do is to keep ignoring her, and keep her out of your life as much as possible. If you ever do need to interact with her, keep it calm, polite and emotionless, as if you were talking to a stranger.

^^This. Stick to your guns and ignore the bıtch.

 

[astrn]

Thanks guys. As I thought I will keep NC and also stay away from the same places that me and she is going for being total ghost...

I am gonna let her crawl for more attention like a little baby...