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You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cold approaching potentially underage women?(Because they may be 18 afterall),advice?

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Hey. It has come to my attention that a lot of attractive women in my area could be potentially underage. But, they could also be 18 or 19. I've been staying away from these girls because I'm afraid I could end up in legal trouble over cold approaching minors. At Wal Mart today, I saw this good looking two-set, with bodies like grown women, but they looked like they could be as young as 16, but as old as 18 or so. What should I do in these situations? Asking their age as an opener seems creepy. And doing something like that makes me concerned about legal problems. I just want to approach these potentially underage women, find out if they're 18, and if they are of legal age, number close and set up a Day 2. But how do I do this correctly? And could I end up in legal trouble just for cold approaching underage girls during the daytime?
I could really go for some barely legal women, but I don't want to get in trouble for it. I'm a little paranoid. Any advice is welcome.
 

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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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There really isn't much you can do other then approach the more mature looking females. I doubt you'll get into any legal trouble for "cold approaching". Asking their age or for ID (lol) entirely defeats the whole purpose. You're more likely to end up in a scuffle with one of their neanderthal relatives simply for talking to their "children".
 

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C-quenced said:
There really isn't much you can do other then approach the more mature looking females. I doubt you'll get into any legal trouble for "cold approaching". Asking their age or for ID (lol) entirely defeats the whole purpose. You're more likely to end up in a scuffle with one of their neanderthal relatives simply for talking to their "children".
Ok. I think I could go direct and tell them they're attractive, but that they look a little young(uncertainty factor). This should open them up, and if not, walk away. I'm just in a bad spot for pick-up(rural South lol), so I'm trying to find ways to get what I want, though it seems difficult at times. Most of the more mature females have kids with them here. I'm starting to open up to the idea of mixed sets and going direct with that. I'll let you know if any scuffles happen. lol
 

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You can't really get into legal trouble for talking to an underage girl as long as keep the conversation PG/indirect. Outright asking their age is like you said not the smoothest way. Although if they are under 21 years old they probably won't think anything of it, but being an older guy it opens you up to being asked the same question. One thing I would do is probe for them being over 18 by asking them what college they go to what HS. For example, if it was at Walmart "You live around here..did you go to (nearby HS) or do you go to or on Summer break from (local community college)..? Her answer will usually make it pretty clear if she is still in high school, and if she has graduated HS or is in college you can assume she is over 18.

That's about the only way I could think of finding out if they were over 18 without just asking directly.
 
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