"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Cold approaching in the UK

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fivefingers

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The DJ forum seems to be too biased towards picking up women in the US. Cold pickup just dont work in the UK because your seen as a creepy or wierdo.

Is there an english pickup site ?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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snackmouth

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yes. people call me a weirdo every time I speak to them. For me they dont understand it is like I am asleep and in a dream always so it gets hard to grasp reality.

When I say things it makes sense to me then people say I am talking bollox but I dont get why?

I am taking drugs but I get slagged.
 

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Are women in the UK really that much colder? I have been there a few times when I was younger, but didn’t really notice a difference. I wasn’t at the age where ‘macking’ was a really high priority though.

I would imagine that the same techniques would be used. If you look at this website (www.bristollair.com), it is in the UK and they use techniques that were developed in US and Canada.
 

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Its impossible to pick up women here. They either ignore you or scream at you like your some creepy rapist.

Maybe I should emigrate to the USA.

Originally posted by Bradshaw
Are women in the UK really that much colder? I have been there a few times when I was younger, but didn’t really notice a difference. I wasn’t at the age where ‘macking’ was a really high priority though.

I would imagine that the same techniques would be used. If you look at this website (www.bristollair.com), it is in the UK and they use techniques that were developed in US and Canada.
 

Tweek_1984

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You all sound like afc's.

I'm in the uk. I find it easy to talk to girls. Say you're in a pub or a shop or wherever, just go over and start a convo. If they blow you off then walk away.

I'm a pretty bitter person though so any witty remarks or blowdowns on their part get shot down by me. I don't care.

Anyways, even though you shouldn't rely on alcohol, it can sometimes lubricate the social wheels. ;)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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