She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
yeah if they need to get somewhere they'll just say "sorry i need to get to class", no biggie. you weren't being rude and they're being nice.Originally posted by Distant Light
I use the same openers as i do anywhere else. So what if she is moving to a next class, there not robots they can stop and chat for a few minutes. Also Lunch time is another good place to pick up.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Didn't mean to sound like that but ya it is actually hardier samething in public its hardier to stop moving targets, expecially if there moving fast. But what the guy said above me is right, if you don't want to take up too much of there time you can slowly game them, what i mean is 1 day you see her you open and do like one DHV or some C&F. Day 2 you can mess with her again, and keep doing this for the week she will get used to you as your slowly gaming her since she has to get to next class, next time you see them when there not in a hurry you can get more time with them.Originally posted by Ace of Flames
i never said it wasnt impossible to do it when they're walking, its just harder. tryin to make it easier for the guy, thats all.