Recently, I've begun venturing into territory a good number of men feel uncomfortable entering. I used to be just like them until recently. I'm sure a lot of you guys could relate to and aware of what I'm referring to here. Those women on the street, in gyms, stores and you name it, who from their facial expressions and mannerisms seem to convey in general that they are unapproachable. They frown, they walk as if injected with doses of excess confidence in their bodies, get a lot of attention and yet seem to cause feelings of intimidation in quite a good number of men. They act as if they don't pay attention to the world around them, yet enjoy the attention they receive from men. I refer to these ones as the b#tchy types, those ones who have incredible attitudes.
These days I've been getting quite some practice just walking right up and cold approaching women who fit the description above. I did that with one on the street today and with another at my gym yesterday. Although the outcome wasn't what I would have liked or preferred, it really had no effect on me. I didn't feel bad that the one I tried to hit on on the street today didn't pay any attention to me and didn't take off her headphones. Nor was I bothered that the one at my gym, although she told me her name and shook my hand, told me she didn't have time to talk and that she was going back to her workout, that it was nice meeting me.
What these women had in common is that they both exuded this "I will cut any man who has the nerve to approach me. Let he who dares try and he'll see. I'll rip him up to shreds." But what I saw was that in the case of these two women for example, they both seemed to be somewhat surprised (based on the looks in their eyes) when I approached them, given the fact that most seem to be used to having many guys act like whims around them. What I have decided from now on is that I will make my move on any woman that I find attractive. No woman can intimidate me. I know I have to keep up with my cold approaches because the moment I stop, I'll get back into my shell and comfort zone and start exuding the AFC behavior of other men.
I'm sure you guys can recall the blonde big ass white lady who used to front like that at my gym. I've never seen her again. Maybe she's left that gym for another location because she felt the guys there seemed to be too wimpy to walk up to her and make a move. Man, I saw this lady on the street today, her ass was unbelievably big. Even though she was wearing a long dress, I could see it, and that's rare. But she was just a little too old for my comfort and probably had children and stuff, so I let it slide. Cold approaching is fun. It's always a challenge, that's what makes it exciting.
These days I've been getting quite some practice just walking right up and cold approaching women who fit the description above. I did that with one on the street today and with another at my gym yesterday. Although the outcome wasn't what I would have liked or preferred, it really had no effect on me. I didn't feel bad that the one I tried to hit on on the street today didn't pay any attention to me and didn't take off her headphones. Nor was I bothered that the one at my gym, although she told me her name and shook my hand, told me she didn't have time to talk and that she was going back to her workout, that it was nice meeting me.
What these women had in common is that they both exuded this "I will cut any man who has the nerve to approach me. Let he who dares try and he'll see. I'll rip him up to shreds." But what I saw was that in the case of these two women for example, they both seemed to be somewhat surprised (based on the looks in their eyes) when I approached them, given the fact that most seem to be used to having many guys act like whims around them. What I have decided from now on is that I will make my move on any woman that I find attractive. No woman can intimidate me. I know I have to keep up with my cold approaches because the moment I stop, I'll get back into my shell and comfort zone and start exuding the AFC behavior of other men.
I'm sure you guys can recall the blonde big ass white lady who used to front like that at my gym. I've never seen her again. Maybe she's left that gym for another location because she felt the guys there seemed to be too wimpy to walk up to her and make a move. Man, I saw this lady on the street today, her ass was unbelievably big. Even though she was wearing a long dress, I could see it, and that's rare. But she was just a little too old for my comfort and probably had children and stuff, so I let it slide. Cold approaching is fun. It's always a challenge, that's what makes it exciting.
