"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I, like most guys, enjoy casual sex without commitment.

That being said, I never tricked a girl into thinking she was getting into a relationship just to fvck her once or twice before ghosting her.

It's not that I care about her feelings. It has nothing to do with "giving zero fvcks about her or a thousand guys" once she becomes jaded...

It's about ethical standards you have for yourself that you refuse to compromise just because you're horny and can't get laid without deception.

I wouldn't be okay with someone using deception to take advantage of my daughter, sister, or mother.... even if that person considered one of them slvt. Not trying to virtue signal but to me it's about common sense and not being hypocritical.

This of course is just my personal perspective.

If you need to use conscious deception to give into a biological urge, go for it, to each their own.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Welcome to the club,read the dj bible.
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I'm not in a club. I just want sex. Old guys must be lying when they say high school girls are easy, that or they're still stuck in 1984. :(
 
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Phuck Yiu said:
I'm not in a club. I just want sex. Old guys must be lying when they say high school girls are easy, that or they're still stuck in 1984. :(
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They say it's "easy" because your mindset and perspectives change as you age. It's kind of like a "if I knew then what I know now" type of thing. I'm 23, but if I knew in high school what I know now, things would have went a lot different when I was in my mid-teens.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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TheProspect said:
With that attitude, you're right.
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I'm not an adult I can't go to the bar when I want quick sex. Girls dress all revealing but don't want sex and it confuses the **** outta me. Either way tomorrow I wake up I'll still be a virgin and the next day and the next day.
 
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Society doesn't give a **** about a horny guy. But for girls that like sex there's dozens of guys willing to **** her.
 
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TheProspect said:
I, like most guys, enjoy casual sex without commitment.

That being said, I never tricked a girl into thinking she was getting into a relationship just to fvck her once or twice before ghosting her.

It's not that I care about her feelings. It has nothing to do with "giving zero fvcks about her or a thousand guys" once she becomes jaded...

It's about ethical standards you have for yourself that you refuse to compromise just because you're horny and can't get laid without deception.

I wouldn't be okay with someone using deception to take advantage of my daughter, sister, or mother.... even if that person considered one of them slvt. Not trying to virtue signal but to me it's about common sense and not being hypocritical.

This of course is just my personal perspective.

If you need to use conscious deception to give into a biological urge, go for it, to each their own.
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To each thier own i guess. But imo my needs are above hers,if she wants it casual thats so fine by me,but if shewanted an rl illlet her hear what she wants to hear.
 
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Phuck Yiu said:
I'm not an adult I can't go to the bar when I want quick sex. Girls dress all revealing but don't want sex and it confuses the **** outta me. Either way tomorrow I wake up I'll still be a virgin and the next day and the next day.
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Fine why are you here then? There is no quick sex tips here
 
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To each thier own i guess. But imo my needs are above hers,if she wants it casual thats so fine by me,but if shewanted an rl illlet her hear what she wants to hear.
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I agree you should always put your needs and wants first, unless you have children. There's kind of a grey area here though. If a woman doesn't mention a relationship or exclusivity and it escalates to sex, I see nothing wrong with that. If she has an issue with it afterwards, that's her problem for not asserting herself.

But if she clearly asserts up front that she is only interested in a relationship or she states having sex means a relationship (and you don't speak up and refuse exclusivity), is when it's an issue to me. I wouldn't want people wasting my time so I wouldn't go out of my way to waste theirs.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What are you guys opening with in day game?
 
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It's not that great. Choking the chicken, feels better.
 
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I know I'm just a "kid" even though I'm almost 18 in a year. But I just want to **** a girl. How is it so hard?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Phuck Yiu said:
I know I'm just a "kid" even though I'm almost 18 in a year. But I just want to **** a girl. How is it so hard?
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It's hard because desparation is a stinky cologne.

If you are still in high school try to hang out with reasonably good looking women. Try to meet up with where alcohol is involved. The one caveat is to watch yourself with a girl who is so inebriated that she can't make legal decision. Buzzed is the ideal.

Most girls in high school want to pop their cherry and yes they attach some bull**** romantic Disney notion to having sex that her 1st will be her last yadda yadda.

Look for girls that are outside the popular group.
 
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Just the standard London daygame "you look nice" probably 90% of the time.

I briefly tried indirect, functional, and other types of opener. But personally prefer a sort of soft-direct approach. (No "you are fvcking sexy" sort of stuff).

A set:

Me: [stopped] Excuse me. I just saw you over there, and I had to say that I thought you looked really nice.

Her: Oh, thanks.

Me: I like your red leather jacket. It reminds me of the Micheal Jackson video "Thriller".

Her: I haven't seen it.

Me: [acting shocked]. What?! How on earth have you not seen that? You seriously haven't seen Micheal Jackson's "Thriller" before?

etc etc.

The shock was legitimate. There are actually people in the world who haven't seen that video. Even had a girlfriend that hadn't seen "Star Wars" too. I don't know what the fvck is wrong with some people.
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Do you have any good tested cold reads/assumption stories?
 
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